i have 2 questions

[Chucks]

Okay so i think i'm bisexual and i have a girlfriend should i tel her that im bi? and is it cheating on her if you exsperiment with guys? thank you and sorry if anytings spelt wrong..

[ackmedsgirl666]

Okay so i think i'm bisexual and i have a girlfriend should i tel her that im bi? and is it cheating on her if you exsperiment with guys? thank you and sorry if anytings spelt wrong..


yes it is cheating. as long as you are in a relationship and even if your just seeing it as experimenting it is still cheating.... i would have a talk with your girlfriend. tell her whats going on.. and how you think you are feeling about males and maybe suggest an open relationship so there isnt full commitment and no cheating.... and see what she says.. hopefully she will understand

[Noirtier]

Okay so i think i'm bisexual and i have a girlfriend should i tel her that im bi? and is it cheating on her if you exsperiment with guys? thank you and sorry if anytings spelt wrong..

Should you tell her you're bi? It's up to you and your choice, it could go well or it could fail miserably. If I were you, I'd be honest about it and tell her, just because I feel that honesty is the best policy. Now, is it cheating on her if you experiment with guys? Absolutely. Regardless of whether you label it "experimenting" or "fuck buddies" or anything of the sort, cheating is cheating is cheating. And it's unacceptable in my book. I wouldn't care if it was just experimenting, I would NOT tolerate it from someone. Cheating ruined my parents' marriage, my grandparents' marriage, and a lot of other things in my life. You made a commitment to her when you said you would go out with her, and its up to you to either keep that commitment by staying solely with her, or if you don't care enough about her and would rather sow your wild oats experimenting, then it's up to you to break up with her. If I were you, you seem to be fairly happy with her, so I'd take things safe and stay with her.

[justinglives]

Agree w noirtier.
Telling her could go either way. Some girls just don't care, some r disgusted, and some find it incredibly hot. U won't kno until u tell her. But u could always test the waters w some general convo 1st. Prob ure best bet.

And yes! It IS cheating if ure in a relationship EVEN if you want to call it "experimenting"

[LouBerry]

Yes it is cheating. She may get mad and dump you, but tell her. Either she'll be really understanding, or she won't. Good luck!