This Is Like A 911 Call!

[jeepmudr14]

Okay i just got a txt from my gf and she just told me shes goin on the pill and wants to have sex wat should i do? HELP!

[Palm kid]

wat do u think u should do its your choice, how old are you? and dont let her push you into this dont forget about the consequences, the pill doesnt always work

[jeepmudr14]

yeah i no shes not pushin it and im 15

[Dolphus Raymond]

If your first response to this is "911 call," I think you should wait, talk to her, and figure out whether you're really ready for this. Your first response should definitely not be "911 call"...

God bless the 21st century, though, when people are doing this by text. I feel so old. :P

[Archduke Robert of France]

That's fairly hilarious. Who sends a txt msg about something like that? :P

Anyways, I think you should seriously consider if you know her/ like her well enough to make such a major commitment. Remind her that the pill doesn't always work and I still think you should use something like a condom just in case you do have sex.

[RaisingSand]

First of all ... IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX AND AREN'T READY, YOU DON'T HAVE TO.
If you feel this way, you should make this very clear to your girlfriend.

[jeepmudr14]

Well we would of done it in person but i'm in Cali 4 vacation on my laptop and shes CrAzY
yet hott

[RaisingSand]

... crazy, like how? And if you think she is so, are you in a relationship with her just because you think she's hot? But that's unhealthy for the both of you.

[dogman]

dont do it if you dont want to, also, you might want to consider, because a text is a fairly random way to ask someone to have sex, that she might not of sent it, or it may have been a dare, i would never ask someone to have sex over a text message

[smarti20067]

First of all ... IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX AND AREN'T READY, YOU DON'T HAVE TO.
If you feel this way, you should make this very clear to your girlfriend.

i agree

[byee]

If your first response to this is "911 call," I think you should wait, talk to her, and figure out whether you're really ready for this. Your first response should definitely not be "911 call"...

God bless the 21st century, though, when people are doing this by text. I feel so old. :P

Finally, something Alcon and I agree on! LOL!

You answered your own q here, my friend. If ia sexual encounter is a '911' moment, then you're too nervous to really enjoy it, which is really ok. At least you know she' s ready when you are. Just take it slow.

[Aηdy]

Well if you need to come on a forum and ask a bunch of people you don't even know if you should, then you're not ready.

[Dolphus Raymond]

Finally, something Alcon and I agree on! LOL!

Hell, I think I've agreed with about 95% of your posts. I just don't post, then, because you've already covered it. :D

You answered your own q here, my friend. If ia sexual encounter is a '911' moment, then you're too nervous to really enjoy it, which is really ok. At least you know she' s ready when you are. Just take it slow.

That's a good point too. If you're this antsy, you're going to have performance issues. So, if you're balancing "I might not be ready" against "that sounds like fun!" on your mental scales, realize that it won't be much fun if you're this terrified.

[Gumleaf]

only do it if you really want to and you are prepared for the possible consequences that follow.

[Hyper]

Hmm 911.. Either your not ready or your wee wee nearly exploded which means your most likely not ready..

Of course you could be ready.. We can't be certain of that over the internet neither can we stop you from doing something or make you not do something..

So yeah if you do it just use a damn condom..

[thesonicguy]

Yes I agree 100%
I think you are to young for your age to not be a virgin!
I'm 14 and I think it's best to wait lintel you end puberty, Or lintel your in marriage.
And you want to be safe and have the same partner! Yes you don't want HIV and STD's!

[Underground_Network]

I believe you should only do it if you truly like her. By truly like her I mean that you are not only physically attracted to her, but emotionally attracted to her as well. If you're relationship fails, and you two had had sex prematurely, it could end up being very disastrous. Be wise with your decisions, it seems like the text itself freaked you out, so I don't think you're ready, but again, its your decision, not ours.

[jeepmudr14]

see here i am ready but i just am imbarresed like if i can't do it right or what u no its not nessacarely a 911 cll but im nervis but idk bout what. or im too small what u no?!?!

[byee]

hey Tom! Listen to yourself! If you're so freaked, how can you possibly expect to enjoy it? Really, it's ok to pass here, there will be other opportunities!