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Sexiijimmie
October 2nd, 2007, 04:55 PM
1. I find myself wanting to be naked more and more. I keep wanting to open the window, and let my stuff be seen to the world. I keep wanting to like "accidentaly" be seen naked by guys. I went to my parent's friend's house for the weekend and me and their had to sleep in the in the same room. I waited until everyone else had gone to bed but me and him, and I would just strip down and change right in front of him. I did it like the whole week we were there, and I know he saw me because I made sure of it, and he was like leaned over in his bed watching me one time.
QUESTION:Why do I feel this? Why is it only towards guys?

2. I like to watch porn, but I always have this quilty feeling after I cum. I know it will go away, or so some people say, but this just keeps on going. I am active in church, and I do get lectures on "DON'T LOOK AT PORN, ITS EVIL" all the time, but I think they are bogus. I even think that christianity itself is bogus sometimes.
QUESTION:Why do I feel so quilty when I watch porn?

4. I find myself wanting to stick my dick into all kinds of things, and thrusting in and out, but I dont. Should I give into this urge, or not?

Palm kid
October 2nd, 2007, 05:44 PM
you sound like a young quagmire from family guy lol
but who doesnt wanna be naked i love it and alot of people mutually masterbate

Atonement
October 2nd, 2007, 06:16 PM
1. Well forcing people to see you naked isn't right. If they have no problem, I don't see a major problem. But I have those urges too sometimes. Its normal. Hormones are going wild.

2. As for the guilty about looking at porn. Our society calls pornography dirty, wrong, and sinful. And because most of our society is christian, that is why our society says its wrong. You feel guilty because society tells you you should. Further more, that is just how people judge other's actions.

4. Again, hormones are wild and you are experimenting. Your experimentation is perfectly normal and many guys do it. It is just fine.

dogman
October 2nd, 2007, 06:34 PM
1. Well forcing people to see you naked isn't right. If they have no problem, I don't see a major problem. But I have those urges too sometimes. Its normal. Hormones are going wild.

2. As for the guilty about looking at porn. Our society calls pornography dirty, wrong, and sinful. And because most of our society is christian, that is why our society says its wrong. You feel guilty because society tells you you should. Further more, that is just how people judge other's actions.

4. Again, hormones are wild and you are experimenting. Your experimentation is perfectly normal and many guys do it. It is just fine.


hit the nail right on the head, cant say more

Kamloops.man
October 2nd, 2007, 09:25 PM
1. I find myself wanting to be naked more and more. I keep wanting to open the window, and let my stuff be seen to the world. I keep wanting to like "accidentaly" be seen naked by guys. I went to my parent's friend's house for the weekend and me and their had to sleep in the in the same room. I waited until everyone else had gone to bed but me and him, and I would just strip down and change right in front of him. I did it like the whole week we were there, and I know he saw me because I made sure of it, and he was like leaned over in his bed watching me one time.
QUESTION:Why do I feel this? Why is it only towards guys?

2. I like to watch porn, but I always have this quilty feeling after I cum. I know it will go away, or so some people say, but this just keeps on going. I am active in church, and I do get lectures on "DON'T LOOK AT PORN, ITS EVIL" all the time, but I think they are bogus. I even think that christianity itself is bogus sometimes.
QUESTION:Why do I feel so quilty when I watch porn?

4. I find myself wanting to stick my dick into all kinds of things, and thrusting in and out, but I dont. Should I give into this urge, or not?


1. A: It may be a curious stage. A lot of guys go through that and don't know why. But you may be going into a curious stage.

2. A: this one is always hard.. I don't know. Maybe because (From a religious view) you know that it's unchristian like to do that but you have to and it maybe feels like you're decieving people/God? (I'm a chrisitan btw, and I struggle with this a lot too.)

4 A: It's really up to you, just don't hurt yourself, and I suggest using some kind of lubrication if you are going to, you don't want your future children to suffer.

byee
October 2nd, 2007, 11:23 PM
Welcome to puberty. To answer your q's, 1) You're showing off to other guys, you might be wanting either their approval, or you want to show them you're as big/developed as they are, that you're a 'Big Boy'. Puberty is eciting, so maybe you want to announce it to the world. Maybe it's related to some competitive thing with you. Not the most mature thing, but, hey, if it floats your boat. Until you either find someone who doesn't appreciate what you're doing, or has bigger stuff. Then it won't be so much fun.

2) If you're active in ANY group that says what you're doing is 'evil' then you're more likely to feel guilt by going against their teachings. Throw God into it, and it's pretty hard to NOT feel some sense of moral regret. You need to decide waht is right for you and what your values are. Leaders of any type are there only to guide. When you're alone, you need to make choices. They are yours alone. FWIW, everybody masturbates, and regardless if they actually look at porn, the images and fantasies they have are probably pretty pornographic, so I guess wherever 'evildoers' go must be a pretty crowded place.

3) If 'camming' means 'cumming' online, then you should realize that there's a possibility that however you're doing this with can keep a permanent record of you masturbating. This may or may not be acceptable to you, regardless of how many others do it.

4) Alot of guys look for new ways to masturbate. Just be careful and use common sense.