What do i do!!!!!!!

[ayelove100]

Recently, my friends asked me to masturate with her! I know a lot of you on here mastubate but i never did it. Especially with the same gender! I told her no but in a nice way. She keeps on asking me and touching me in private places so i feel kinda uncomfortable but she is my best friends and a relative. I kinda like it when i get touched but i dont wanna do it. I really dont want to because after a while she brought it up and she was like "Selene last time you said u wanted to" I was like "no i didn't!what r u talking about" then she started telling me maybe i got mixed up between you and my friends, since she mastubates wiith many people. I then started to panic because i think she might have told many people that i supposedly mastubated with her though i did not. I have been trying to avoid her to avoid trouble but shes a relative so i see her once a while. What do you guys think about this? Also do you think I am not normal since i don't masturbate? :what: In addition i wanna tell u one more time i never masturbated with her even know she told some people i did.

[TheSocialInspector]

Well, I masturbating is pretty natural but once you do it with someone, it can actually go pretty out of hand. I suggest you inquire(ask) her why does she want to do it with you - if she replies something nonsentic(for instance, "you know, I just feel horny and stuff") just deny it. This is your body, it is your right. You cannot and should not let someone else command you to inflict something only you can execute.

If she says something more civilised, just reason with her.

It's natural if you don't masturbate. Some find it taboo and you're just one of those people. If you tried it and you don't like it, it's alright as it's not an essential action that needs to be commited in your life. In fact, I'm not even sure if masturbating is beneficial. I heard it is. But this is the Internet, after all, a place where people go to the extent of saying Barack Obama is Osama Bin Laden, which is, I find, absolute rubbish.

Anyways, masturbation is pretty natural, I suppose because I know mass loads of people who masturbate and all openly say it because they think it's natural. I suppose it is?

[Heike16]

You are not abnormel not masturbating, don't worry!!

And youre friend is not really youre friend if she tries to talk into you to this! She has to accept youre answer, if not, she ist not youre friend.

[ayelove100]

You are not abnormel not masturbating, don't worry!!

And youre friend is not really youre friend if she tries to talk into you to this! She has to accept youre answer, if not, she ist not youre friend.

:) Thanks....the poblem is shes a relative as well which really sucks that i always see her.

[Taryn98]

If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then you definitely should not do it. It's that simple.

[holagurrl]

Masturbating is totally normal, almost everyone does it. What your friend is doing to you however is wrong. And totally creepy esp since she is a relative. Just because she is the same gender as you doesn't mean that it's not sexual harassment. If she is making you feel really uncomfortable and won't stop no matter what you say the tell someone. You shouldn't ever let anyone try and take advantage of you no matter who they are.

[FreeFall]

She's touching you and you don't want it and sometimes don't like it. Stop letting her touch you, and stop letting her molest you.

That's what she's doing. When someone touches you where you don't want it, when you don't want it, that's molestation. And she has no right to molest you because your bestie westie friends that share blood.

No you're not abnormal. I'm not a huge masturbation person myself.

[pinkgurl16]

Tell her if you don't like her touching you.

[ackmedsgirl666]

your cousin.... shoudnt even be talking to you like that
if you feel very uncomfortable and she doesnt lay off talk to you parents or hers
make it clear to her.. tell her you dont think its right and you dont want to do it and she needs to quit asking you or else you will tells somebody