How do you know?

[Underground_Network]

This is just a general question... How do you know if a girl likes you?
I asked my friends and they really didn't have an answer. I just know a lot of girls do weird things around guys (there are some girls I know who say weird things, do unexpected things in front of me) and I'm just wondering how do you know if a girl truly likes you? And what would it mean if a girl started talking sexually around you? B/c I know a girl at my school who's somewhat physically attractive, and single, who talks dirty around all the guys she knows. I just don't know how I can know if a girl likes me. There are two different girls that I like that I think might be trying to show me that they like me.

[mixedupfool]

idk man, but im in the same boat

[Palm kid]

i have tyhe same problem but if you know them well enough you'll understand their habits of wat they do when they like someone i recently (today) found out that my bestfriend today liked my last year when i liked her and boy was i upset that i kept it to my self

[Archduke Robert of France]

Palm is right. If you've known them for a while, you'll start to notice slight changes in their behavior. If you don't really know them that well, they'll start talking, or attempting to, to you. They could also start doing creepy things like stuffing notes into your locker, etc. which has happened to me once before.

[byee]

You can tell if a girl likes you if they 1) Smile alot aorund you, 2) blush a lot, 3) giggle, 4) talk with you, and linger a bit past the end of the convo. 4) seem tyo seek you out, as if they're always nearby. Typically, if they act 'different' than they do at other times, if they seem to enjoy being around you (see above), it's a safe bet they're interested. You should recriprocate, smile alot, talk with them, reward their interest with some of your own.

In the end, remember that there are 2 kinds of people in this world. Those that want to be with you, and those who don't. the easiest way to see which category they're in is to see how often they seem to be with you, and what their reaction to you is. Focus on them not your own anxiety and you'll nail it. (girls aren't really THAT complicated!)

[0=]

Ask.

[Hyper]

Ask.

Yeah pretty.. Much all girls like confidence and if your not sure just ask her without fear..

As the knowledge of her liking you wont be worth much.. Unless you put it to use and with the above option you automatically could put it to use as you'll break 2 barriers at once :rolleyes:

[Underground_Network]

Thanks for the advice... Although I could use with a girl's opinion in this thread... To my awareness no girl has posted in this thread yet; but nonetheless, I'll take your advice to heart. I definitely know at least one girl who fits under most of what Sam said, but still I'm someone who's always afraid he'll screw up, so I'm just gonna take things slowly and see whether I think she really likes me or not.

[Hyper]

Thanks for the advice... Although I could use with a girl's opinion in this thread... To my awareness no girl has posted in this thread yet; but nonetheless, I'll take your advice to heart. I definitely know at least one girl who fits under most of what Sam said, but still I'm someone who's always afraid he'll screw up, so I'm just gonna take things slowly and see whether I think she really likes me or not.


Haven't you made threads like this before? And said the same thing.. Or am I getting confused :P?

[Gumleaf]

You can tell if a girl likes you if they 1) Smile alot aorund you, 2) blush a lot, 3) giggle, 4) talk with you, and linger a bit past the end of the convo. 4) seem tyo seek you out, as if they're always nearby. Typically, if they act 'different' than they do at other times, if they seem to enjoy being around you (see above), it's a safe bet they're interested. You should recriprocate, smile alot, talk with them, reward their interest with some of your own.

In the end, remember that there are 2 kinds of people in this world. Those that want to be with you, and those who don't. the easiest way to see which category they're in is to see how often they seem to be with you, and what their reaction to you is. Focus on them not your own anxiety and you'll nail it. (girls aren't really THAT complicated!)


that makes a lot of sense. i should keep that in mind.

[Sapphire]

I've been told that I can be a really flirty person, though I don't really notice it. With me it's all unconscious (which can get me in a bit of a pickle!) But I tend to talk a lot, laugh a lot, touch/hug them and apparently I sometimes bite my bottom lip.
Basically what they guys have said is pretty much spot on - though we are all slightly different!

[Underground_Network]

Haven't you made threads like this before? And said the same thing.. Or am I getting confused :P?

I probably have made at least one similar thread, but it either didn't get much traffic, or something, because I can't recall making a thread like this. But I will say similar threads have definitely been made. BTW, thanks for the advice guys (and girl [Carole]). I haven't really noticed anything, but this one girl that I kind of like (she's a sophomore, that, other than her name, I don't know much about), seems to be staring at me during my first period class, but I'm not sure how to approach her.

[Gumleaf]

it is easy to get confused between friendly gestures such as hugging, etc and people being interested. i think the best thing to do is ask rather then basing things just soley on gestures, although in saying that some gestures can't be mistaken.

[Sapphire]

Strike up a conversation with her. Good ice breakers can be centered around the class work, homework or teacher seeing as you are in the same class. Once you have got into conversation with her its pretty easy.

[BornActor]

Yeah pretty.. Much all girls like confidence and if your not sure just ask her without fear..

As the knowledge of her liking you wont be worth much.. Unless you put it to use and with the above option you automatically could put it to use as you'll break 2 barriers at once :rolleyes:

asking would be ideal but if they r your friend then it might be wierd and might ruin the friendship