do i still like him?

[princess09]

ok so i know its harsh but i went out with this boy me and my friends met in my local town as a dare, we went out on dates and stuff and close to too months in we kissed! i broke up with him because i felt bad it was a dare and i keep dreaming about him. i suppose i did like him a little bit, but hes not very attractive, when we broke up we had an argument and he was calling me a slag and stuff but i still dream about him. at school me and my friends always talk about him because shes reallly close with him but what does it mean? do i like him? HELP!!!:what:

[FreeFall]

No. You don't. You're wondering how far it could've gone since kissing was the farthest it went.

But here's my issue. You go out with people on dares...and you're attracted to guys who call you the U.K. equivalent for slut? Self esteem and a sense of self worth and love, you need to work on that. I think you've got more to worry about than this guy.

[saul1026]

no you dont love him maybe you find a physical attraction with because you guys were kissing and what not what you should do is talk to him and tell him your sorry

[princess09]

No. You don't. You're wondering how far it could've gone since kissing was the farthest it went.

But here's my issue. You go out with people on dares...and you're attracted to guys who call you the U.K. equivalent for slut? Self esteem and a sense of self worth and love, you need to work on that. I think you've got more to worry about than this guy.



ok thanks like what?

[princess09]

no you dont love him maybe you find a physical attraction with because you guys were kissing and what not what you should do is talk to him and tell him your sorry

thanks i when we had that argument we both said we never want to talk to eachother again and now he wont speak to me :wub:

[saul1026]

thanks i when we had that argument we both said we never want to talk to eachother again and now he wont speak to me :wub:

well just tell him how you feel and tell him what you said in your post

[FreeFall]

ok thanks like what?

I just told you. Self esteem, sense of self worth and love. You going out with a person on dares indicates to me that you're either really immature or don't give a damn who you call a boyfriend/date/partner. This guy is calling you a slut. And you like that? So either you have no self respect, are a sadist or your standards are low to non existant. Figure out if you'd be ok with a man calling your mom a skank slag whore twat. Imagine if you had a daughter, how you'd feel about a boy callin her a twat slut bitch whore. Then apply that to yourself.

[ackmedsgirl666]

your in an emotional situation
try and forget about him.. move on... its over.. and by the sounds of things you were pretty attached to him.... so its a good thing things didnt escalate and go further than they did