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Jimmy Page
November 19th, 2012, 02:07 PM
I have this friend(same girl,fuck she has a lot of issues(sorry,bad joke))
So there is this guy(isn't there always?) that likes her,and she likes him,they've been at it(flirting a lot) for some time
but then there is this other guy that she's gotten to flirt with lately,and now she came to me asking for advice because she's fallen in love with both,but don't know what to do because she's afraid of hurting feelings,and she know she has to but don't know how
again,I don't know what to tell her(I'm the go to guy with most stuff,but I don't know all the answers)
some help what to tell my friend?
Gandalf
November 19th, 2012, 02:19 PM
I have this friend(same girl,fuck she has a lot of issues(sorry,bad joke))
So there is this guy(isn't there always?) that likes her,and she likes him,they've been at it(flirting a lot) for some time
but then there is this other guy that she's gotten to flirt with lately,and now she came to me asking for advice because she's fallen in love with both,but don't know what to do because she's afraid of hurting feelings,and she know she has to but don't know how
again,I don't know what to tell her(I'm the go to guy with most stuff,but I don't know all the answers)
some help what to tell my friend?
Ian, your friend needs to be honest and think carefully about both people before sharing her thoughts, but needs to be honest and think which person they would have a more meaningful relationship with and to break the news carefully and sensitively.
Other than that it's something she has to figure out for herself.
Sorry I couldn't be more helpful...
Volcom
December 10th, 2012, 03:11 PM
i was in the opposite situation. i had feelings for two girls and was afraid of hurting the other ones feelings. eventually one of the girls gave me a big push and i told her that i liked her...after that we were talking for about a week and i had hurt the other girl's feelings terribly. i knew she still had a huge crush on me. then the girl that i was talking to went on vacation.
while she was on vacation me and the other girl were both at a friend's bonfire party..during the party we ended up holding hands and then in a few days i asked her out..
when the person got back from vacation i told her what happened and she understood, and said that she didnt want a boyfriend anyway..
i guess the thing to tell her is to go with her gut..who ever she has liked for the longest, most, and whoever she thinks will treat her the best for the longest time..
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