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rodrigorolhaBR
November 19th, 2012, 08:12 AM
Do u have one? or more?
Post it, lets see the most strangers, and the coolests too! :D

kiddo2002
November 19th, 2012, 10:05 AM
i have a fetish for red-haired women

Lost in the Echo
November 19th, 2012, 03:48 PM
No, not really.

Also, let me clarify that there is a difference between "fetish" and "preference" , a fetish is something you're obsessed with, a preference is something that you just like, or like more than something else.
An example of a preference, would be that a guy is attracted to blonde haired girls more than he is to brunette haired girls, or he likes small titties and not big ones.

A fetish is something that someone either likes something more than the average person, or someone who is obsessed with something that is considered bizarre or weird, like if someone is obsessed with feet or piss, that would be a fetish.
But a preference is something that someone simply likes more than something else.

So there is a difference between a preference and a fetish, don't get them mixed up.
I think people often say they have a fetish for something, when it's just a preference.

VinylRecord
November 19th, 2012, 04:32 PM
No, not really.

Also, let me clarify that there is a difference between "fetish" and "preference" , a fetish is something you're obsessed with, a preference is something that you just like, or like more than something else.
An example of a preference, would be that a guy is attracted to blonde haired girls more than he is to brunette haired girls, or he likes small titties and not big ones.

I disagree. I have fetishes that are not obsessions and know others who feel the same way.

For example, my ex boyfriend has a BDSM fetish, but isn't obsessed. He can enjoy 'normal' sex that doesn't incorporate his fetishes but still very much prefers BDSM because it turns him on even more, and the more you're turned on, the better the orgasm.

A fetish isn't something you're obsessed with but simply something out of the ordinary that turns you on sexually. You can become obsessed with a fetish, but typically people aren't.

Lost in the Echo
November 19th, 2012, 04:48 PM
I disagree. I have fetishes that are not obsessions and know others who feel the same way.

For example, my ex boyfriend has a BDSM fetish, but isn't obsessed. He can enjoy 'normal' sex that doesn't incorporate his fetishes but still very much prefers BDSM because it turns him on even more, and the more you're turned on, the better the orgasm.

A fetish isn't something you're obsessed with but simply something out of the ordinary that turns you on sexually. You can become obsessed with a fetish, but typically people aren't.

Yeah, I just googled BDSM, and according to wikipedia it's a preference, not a fetish.
Feel free to disagree with me, but I stand by what I said.

VinylRecord
November 19th, 2012, 04:55 PM
Yeah, I just googled BDSM, and according to wikipedia it's a preference, not a fetish.
Feel free to disagree with me, but I stand by what I said.

Below is a quote directly out of Wikipedia on sexual fetishism.

Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the fetish; the person who has a fetish for that object/situation is a fetishist.[1] A sexual fetish may be regarded as an enhancing element to a romantic/sexual relationship "achieved in ordinary ways (e.g. having the partner wear a particular garment)" or as a mental disorder/disorder of sexual preference if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life.[2] Arousal from a particular body part is classified as partialism.[3]

A fetish is a turn on, or "an enhancing element to a romantic/sexual relationship" it is not an obsession. It enhances the sexual experience, very rarely to fetishes control the experience.

eric_am_i
November 19th, 2012, 05:01 PM
ok so unlike these two that didn't answer the question and are just arguing over what a fetish is, I will answer the question. I have a fetish for feet, but only clean, good looking feet

LitBlackRose
November 19th, 2012, 07:46 PM
Yes ... I have a very strong bondage fetish. Also one for tall pale guys with tattoos and green or gray eyes. Also one for hands . Soft hands . Also ones that play any interment doesn't matter which one

PoseidonX43
November 19th, 2012, 07:50 PM
I have a liking for blond and blue eyes on guys, oh and abs.

WickedWeekend
November 19th, 2012, 08:59 PM
Yeah, I just googled BDSM, and according to wikipedia it's a preference, not a fetish.
Feel free to disagree with me, but I stand by what I said.

So now Wikipedia is the authority on fetishes?

I don't have a fetish. But I do have a preference for Mexican girls.

rodrigorolhaBR
November 21st, 2012, 11:19 AM
I haven't aswered it, btw, i have fetish for pussy fluids (squirt, natural lub...), and for spit, not a loooot of it, but a little turns me on! :)

pokedragonS8
June 28th, 2013, 04:11 AM
Yes ... I have a very strong bondage fetish. Also one for tall pale guys with tattoos and green or gray eyes. Also one for hands . Soft hands . Also ones that play any interment doesn't matter which one

Ah, seems like I'm not the only one with a huge bondage fetish!


Hmm, well, this whole preference business is confusing...

honeybear
June 28th, 2013, 07:18 AM
a couple of different body fluids ;) and being watched while having sex or masturbating...so intense

jaxian rhyder
June 28th, 2013, 07:30 AM
I know that ur gonnasay its not a fetish butbut trust me its a fetish
Boxer breifs

photojared
June 28th, 2013, 07:31 AM
I have a foot fetish, only boys and need to be clean and look nice

Perfectly Flawed
June 28th, 2013, 09:55 AM
Bdsm

Mob Boss
June 29th, 2013, 01:53 AM
I like when people don't bump threads. That's my fetish.

Please do not bump threads that have been inactive for 3 months or more in Both.
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