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[BobtheLlama]

I've loved girls all my life, i've had many girlfriends and always had attraction and an intense urge when i was around them and an emptiness without them. Now this whole puberty thing and i still have attractions towards girls, and get erections during kisses and all, but when I see any guy I get all scared and get a weird shock. And I spend all day asking the same question straight or not??? Sometimes i feel a hated odd small attraction towards a random person, cuz i think in my head, they have a nice looking nose or something. but i really like this girl and love grinding with her...???

[Atonement]

Most males experience at some point the question "am I straight?". No men are 100% straight of 100% gay. People have interests and curiousities. It is perfectly normal. I don't know your age, but by the sounds of it, you are still experiencing things that all men go through. Just curiousity, thats it. Don't freak out or anything, just chill and grow to help learn about yourself. :D

[byee]

Repeat after me: What i am attracted to during my teen years does not necessarily indicate what my sexuality is. Say this three times each incident of self doubt.

Sexuality is not determined solely by physical attraction (or interaction). It is about emotions and closeness and feelings. Those take alot of time to figure out. You'll know when you are there. Self doubts/questions aren't hints.

[RaisingSand]

It's normal to acknowledge that other guys are attractive. :) Going through your teenage years, you may still be a bit confused about your sexuality, but just because you may have a few impure thoughts about other guys DOES NOT mean you're gay. Sam is right, who/what you are attracted to during your teenage years doesn't determine your sexuality.

[BobtheLlama]

K, but I want your guys's opinion. I am emotionally and physically attracted to girls. I have fantasies about girls and so on. But, there are people that are not only girls that look good, and I get one little like feeling thing then I spend the rest of the day testing myself. aAnd sometimes it gets so out of hand that whenever I see a guy I get scared out of my wits, and when I'm worried I get the same feeling. And when I do stuff, in my room, some nights I get 1 really fast becuase of girls and other nights its slower. And I test myself every once in a while while doing that and I feel disconnected from myself and I imagine both some nights girls more but then some nights (And I hate to see naked guys) the guy thing that I do as a test almost does it...So I don't know what to do...What do I sound like to you?

[sasori1122]

Questioning your sexuality is typical of the teen years...everyone goes through it...and physical attraction doesn't equate to your sexuality either...

you'd have to be able to be really emotionally attached, have that connection...with someone of the same sex, to be worrying about being bisexaul or gay...not that that's anything to worry about...

but you know...it's just a thing people go through in the teen years...don't worry about it too much

[Underground_Network]

I think everyone has answered your question, you are only gay if you are EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY attracted to the same sex, you are only straight if you are EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY attracted to the opposite sex, you are bisexual if you are EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY attracted to both sexes. In your case it seems you are emotionally and physically attracted to girls, while you are only physically attracted, if attracted at all, to guys, thus you are as straight as a straight man can be.

[BobtheLlama]

But this month, theres been more guy phsyiicality than usual, and usually its next to nothing...so what???

[Sapphire]

Unless you experience the desire to have an emotional/romantic relationship with a guy then you are straight. Simple as.