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Aklab23
November 17th, 2012, 02:37 PM
This was kind of embarassing and arousing at the same time. I was on the bus with standing room only and it was extremely close quarters. When more people got on at one stop the girl in front of me back into and bumped me. She said sorry and looked back the other way again.

When the bus started moving again whenever it swayed or turned her butt bumped directly into my crotch area! This happened several times and I started to get an erection. I was mortified because she had on yoga pants and the only thing that might of saved me was my jeans were pretty baggy so she might not have felt it!

After a bit I was beginning to think she was doing it on purpose, but she never looked at me or said anything and she eventually just got off without even looking back.

Would a girl do this on purpose?! Or did I embarass both us and she was too freaked out to even look at me?!

Swagging god
November 17th, 2012, 02:38 PM
I would say she just lost her balamce, Idk though

ayelove100
November 17th, 2012, 02:43 PM
She might have just lost her balance, but if she wasn't into u she probably would have done something to stop it. But maybe she tried and didn't work. Anyways, she might have been losing her balance and she didn't look back because she didn't want to see your reaction, or maybe she like you and she thought that might get u to say something to her, and so she didn't look back to not make it obvious.

crashing
November 23rd, 2012, 10:10 AM
i've had something similar to this happen to me, only at a concert and the girl in front of me backed into me more than once. She could've been losing her balance. Was she alot older than you? maybe she was having a bit of fun with you

StoneColdNicky
December 15th, 2012, 04:51 AM
Luckily I usually have my school bag to put in front of me when I'm on a bus if something like this happens!

Mortal Coil
December 15th, 2012, 04:59 AM
>on public transport
>very crowded
>bumpy
>thinks another passenger bumped into them for the purpose of arousing them sexually.

Uh, nope. Nope nope nope. She was on the bus, trying to go somewhere, and it was fucking crowded. Bodies move when the bus goes over a bump; it's a fact of life. To think that she was doing this to turn you on is both ignorant and kind of egocentric.
Furthermore, in western society no woman would dare do something to sexually "provoke" a man, because if you're doing something like that and then get sexually assaulted, many will pin the blame on you for "asking for it."

ForrestGump
December 15th, 2012, 12:48 PM
No, probably not. I'm from Toronto too. Those busses are pretty "waboly". I don't know how to spell it. Lolzies.

ForrestGump
December 15th, 2012, 12:49 PM
>on public transport
>very crowded
>bumpy
>thinks another passenger bumped into them for the purpose of arousing them sexually.

Uh, nope. Nope nope nope. She was on the bus, trying to go somewhere, and it was fucking crowded. Bodies move when the bus goes over a bump; it's a fact of life. To think that she was doing this to turn you on is both ignorant and kind of egocentric.
Furthermore, in western society no woman would dare do something to sexually "provoke" a man, because if you're doing something like that and then get sexually assaulted, many will pin the blame on you for "asking for it."

Calm down, he was just asking a question.

Lost in the Echo
December 15th, 2012, 12:52 PM
I don't think it was on purpose, it was probably just an accident, since you guys were standing, and some of the bumps and shit in the road caused you guys to be off balance.

Mortal Coil
December 15th, 2012, 09:47 PM
Calm down, he was just asking a question.

I'm not angry. I was just answering the question and providing reasons.

wish_master_TWA
December 19th, 2012, 01:27 PM
I'd just say she was off balance, but then again it might have been intentional. I don't know, your call! :bigsmile:

Pizzahead
December 19th, 2012, 02:13 PM
Maybe off balance

Gymrat17
December 19th, 2012, 02:20 PM
I'd say it was just the movements of the bus. Anyway, it doesn't really matter all that much as you will likely never see her again.

TommyD
December 19th, 2012, 02:32 PM
only she will know but i think accident

hscott729
December 19th, 2012, 03:21 PM
sorry mate, butthis just sounds like she was on thbus :P but lucky You

Arsenalfan123
December 19th, 2012, 03:23 PM
maybe lost her balance

karabeauty
December 20th, 2012, 09:50 PM
Probably not. If she wasn't looking at you, she probably wasn't trying to turn you on.

xMr.CoolGuyx
December 20th, 2012, 11:00 PM
>on public transport
>very crowded
>bumpy
>thinks another passenger bumped into them for the purpose of arousing them sexually.

Uh, nope. Nope nope nope. She was on the bus, trying to go somewhere, and it was fucking crowded. Bodies move when the bus goes over a bump; it's a fact of life. To think that she was doing this to turn you on is both ignorant and kind of egocentric.
Furthermore, in western society no woman would dare do something to sexually "provoke" a man, because if you're doing something like that and then get sexually assaulted, many will pin the blame on you for "asking for it."

Or or or or or. She was. -.-

Mortal Coil
December 20th, 2012, 11:42 PM
Or or or or or. She was. -.-

Where's your argument for your opinion though?? Please explain.

CharlieHorse
December 20th, 2012, 11:46 PM
She'd throw you a wink if it was intentional. ;)

Nolf
December 21st, 2012, 01:30 AM
whatever it was, it was a minor interaction, and if she wasnt trying to turn you on then shes already probably forgotten about it and if she was then good for you. Youll never actually know so just dont let it bother you

anyone50
December 21st, 2012, 03:27 AM
I'm going to go with the losing her balance therory everytime the bus moved or swayed and even if she was aware of your crotch like you said the bus was very crowded so it's not like she could move away very easily. It's kinda like what happened to me a couple years ago waiting in line at a rollercoaster ride at Knotts Berry Farm. lots of people in line and this a few of the people ahead of me where horseplaying around and from time to time i felt the elbow of the guy in front of me brush up against my boob. I just figured it was accidental since the people ahead of him moved around so much. I think you have to give people the benifit of the doubt unless they do something very overt and make it very clear that it's on pourpose.

flyboy27
December 21st, 2012, 11:22 AM
ya she wouldve looked back or done something if it was on purpose...damn buses! sorry dude

txtwister13
December 21st, 2012, 11:36 AM
I think it was just a bumpy bus ride and the girl had no idea she was doing anything.......trust me, when a girl is trying to turn you on she wants to see your reaction - lol

ali98
December 21st, 2012, 01:19 PM
This was kind of embarassing and arousing at the same time. I was on the bus with standing room only and it was extremely close quarters. When more people got on at one stop the girl in front of me back into and bumped me. She said sorry and looked back the other way again.

When the bus started moving again whenever it swayed or turned her butt bumped directly into my crotch area! This happened several times and I started to get an erection. I was mortified because she had on yoga pants and the only thing that might of saved me was my jeans were pretty baggy so she might not have felt it!

After a bit I was beginning to think she was doing it on purpose, but she never looked at me or said anything and she eventually just got off without even looking back.

Would a girl do this on purpose?! Or did I embarass both us and she was too freaked out to even look at me?!

Of course she was! Go for her!

saul1026
December 21st, 2012, 03:49 PM
she probably lost her balance but maybe she was doing it on pourpose because if the first time she did it she said sorry then she thought that she could do again so who knows

Coolboi
December 21st, 2012, 04:02 PM
well chances are it was an accident bumpy ride in a bus standing bobble heading around I think you liked it but your the one that knows the best answer chances are no

Jakeisamazing
December 21st, 2012, 08:08 PM
I doubt she was intentionally doing this.

Lock
December 22nd, 2012, 08:48 AM
I think it was just a bumpy bus ride and the girl had no idea she was doing anything.......trust me, when a girl is trying to turn you on she wants to see your reaction - lol

smooth girl i like your words

xMr.CoolGuyx
December 24th, 2012, 01:01 AM
Where's your argument for your opinion though?? Please explain.

Possibly a one night stand on a bus.

britt69
December 24th, 2012, 04:52 PM
Probably not. If she wasn't looking at you, she probably wasn't trying to turn you on.

i agree if she really was trying to get your attention she would have looked at you more or even smiled at you.. at least that is what i would do! :-)

Troy35216
December 24th, 2012, 04:57 PM
sounds like it was just an accident on a crowded bus.