First Relationship Advice

[rooamazing]

Hey guys I'm just going to start off by telling you that we're are both 13 but she is nearly 14 now please don't let this turn you off or let it put an instant 'your too young' image in your head. I'm sorry there is so much to read and there are different questions I need answering but also do not let this put you off. I need help and I know this is the best place find the best help. Please read on.

We both like each other and we have told each other on skype 3 months ago. Things at home were a a little stressful for her and I didn't want to put more stress on her for being committed in a relationship, she has told me everything about the situation and she has cried to me about it and she knows I'm here for her. Fortunately, things are easing at home so she isn't as worried at the moment. I don't want to rush in obviously as she is just getting over other things but I feel if I don't do something soon enough she might think I'm over her or fed up of her but I really like her so much and she is the first person to bring these feelings out of me.

My first dilema is that one of my very close girl mates is very close to her as well so she gets secrets but passes it through, it sounds bad like a middle-man it is actually very helpful to find out about how she feels. Apparently she thinks I have gone off her as i found out from this other girl, I need to do something quick because I don't want to lose this chance with one of the best girls I have ever met. I don't want to just ask her out but I would sort of like to go on a date with her, not on our own yet but maybe as a double date with another few friends (which is a different story ;)) because I find just asking her out to be a little tame?
1. Have you any ideas what we could do together?

You may have seen this question lots of times before but I need someone to answer to my specific situation. She has kissed other guys before. I have never kissed other girls before. I know she doesn't expect anything major off me like meating (even though you could answer this as a bonus question for future (or if we do get to that stage) then that would be great, thanks) she probably does expect maybe a 5-10-(gradually getting longer as things 'hopefully' progress) bit of flirty kissing if you know what I mean like a lot lips but sneaky tongue sort of thing. I know I shouldn't be peer-pressured (even though I'm not, non of my friends have, but this isn't a reason why I shouldn't) and I know people may say I'm too young, but I think I'm ready and as long as I'm confident I think I will be fine because the truth of the matter is, people do this my age and to be quite honest it's normal and common (because of hormones and you all understand this too being around my age).
2. How do I know when to kiss her?
3. Where should I kiss her (not the lips, the place)?
4. How do I kiss her (very important)?

Sorry for so much text and sorry if I'm being dumb, thank you so much guys!

[Jordyy]

2. How do I know when to kiss her? The best time to kiss is when you're alone, There is normally a pause in the conversation and you're looking into her eyes.. You will know when the time is right tbh.
3. Where should I kiss her (not the lips, the place)? Well my first kiss was Near a shopping center. We found a private place then it happened. First dates are normally at the movies ect
4. How do I kiss her (very important)?Move to her closely then tilt your head.. Just ease into it. Kiss her lips (Top or bottom). It happens all naturally just go with the flow.


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[sieg]

1. go alone. that's the best course of action right there. yes, you'll be nervous. yes, i t will be a lot easier with a friend or another couple. but honestly, nothing says "Hey, I like you" like some one on one time.
2. i was never too great at telling when.. a few dates in is a good time. oh and if it's your first time, practice. trust me, it sounds weird but it's worth it to practice.
3. if your talking about oral sex, google it. can't ask that kinda stuff on VT EDIT: i didn't understand at first. yeah, me and him were alone in his room, i was about to leave so i kissed him goodbye.
4. uhm.. hard to explain. you kind of... guh. just google that one too, it's confusing to explain lol. you sort of let the crease in your lips go over their upper or lower lip, and suck very very lightly. hopefully somebody else will be able to better clarify.