I feel Bad That i dont feel very upset about....

[Haydenn3]

Hey guys i recently lost my great nan i didnt really know her and i hate to say it but didnt really care the fact she died and i feel so bad and horrible about this now my other great nan is dieing and i new her alot more yet i dont feel as much to her dieing than i think i should be i love her and miss her and hope she dies soon as she cannot eat drink or even open her eyes and i feel sad about this yet i dont know i can get on normally like nothing is happening i just so confused :confused:

[ackmedsgirl666]

youve been hit with a batch of emotions
u stated that your grandmother who died you werent close with... perhaps you feel neglected.... AND SHE DIDNT SHOW SHE LOVED you or what not... and now your feeling regrets because you wish you could have atleast tried to get close with her... and your other nan who you are close with.... well you have lost 2 grandmoms now and you just know how to actually feel anymore about the whole thing. its hard losing a loved one.... i have pretty much lost all of my grandparents. i have 3 remaining, my grumps, my nanna, and my nanny. im only close with my nanny i love her to bits and pieces.... but im not as close with the other 2. if they died i probably wouldnt care because of the closeness we didnt have... but my nan i would be devasted. your just having mixed emotions and eventually it will all hit you at once...
sorry about your loss

[Ryhanna]

I suppose it depends on how well you knew them. If you didn't know them very well, or spend much time with them, then you're likely to feel less emotional about it than if you lost someone immediately close to you.

The important thing is, that people deal with loss in very different ways, and feeling sad isn't neccessarily the first thing that everyone feels.

[CallumMH95]

I agree with Ryan there :)
You don't feel so bad probably cause you weren't close to her. That's alright ... You have nothing to worry about :)

[Heavyrain4life]

It's very likely that you're emotionally numb. It happens when a lot of things happen all at once, especially death. Now... After the numbness wears off, I don't know if you'll feel bad or not. Sometimes, you may be really happy, and then burst into tears before you even know whats wrong. The human mind is a fickle being, and nobody can claim to understand it. Just know, I'll be here to talk to you, if you want.

[giles2603]

When I lost my nan I felt the same. I hadn't spoken to her for 3 years because we moved away. I still haven't felt sad about what happened, eventually it may hit me and then I'll feel really bad for not caring before. I suppose because I didn't know her a lot since we left, life hasn't changed much.. If they are really close then I suppose things in your life will have changed. I really don't know what else to say, I never saw my nan when she was on life support because everyone thought it would be best to remember how she was before then how she was now. :/

[Jakejjj]

That sucks she's in a better place she will be watching over you