First handjob

[jtk339]

Ok so im totally a virgin but today a girl gave me a hand-job but i lasted about 20 to 30 mins before i came ?

why did i last this long ?
im not lying i actually did last this long!?!?!
we were both naked aswell?!?

[nick]

Everyone thinks/worries that their first time with a girl, whether it's a bj, hj or full sex, will be over too quickly, premature ejaculation, the excitement of the situation will be too much. But it's not like that for everyone. For some of us our only experience of orgasm and ejaculation has been a private affair and to reproduce that when another person is present, especially the other sex, not just guys wanking off together, can prove to be difficult.

There is a different context here compared to when you masturbate, there is an extent to which you want to impress, feel the need to impress, and therefore worry that you won't impress, when in fact none of that matters. All you need to do is relax and enjoy the moment.

[StoneColdNicky]

If it is getting kind of awkward, don't be afraid to kind of guide her and show her how you like it.

[Sean4U]

I have to say be thankful, because most of the entries that I've seen on a topic like this is just the opposite.....cumming in like 20-30 SECONDS...but as Nick sadi this was totally new for you and you were anticipating it be like masturbating yourself, which is isn't.....plus her technique was different providing a different stimulation on your penis....and face it a girl just doesn't know how to give a HJ to a guy like he does himself or another guy

[crashing]

the first handjob i got i lasted about 15 minutes. alot of it is getting used to someone else doing it, the situation, trying to take everything in. my first blowjob was the same way