hurts to masterbate

[ackmedsgirl666]

so i can go up to 10 times in a night if i try....
heres my question.. how come it takes 5 minutes or more for your first orgasm to come but then when you start again it comes within seconds
what is it that causes orgasms to come more frequently

and another question.. why does it hurt when i orgams.. i get cramps almost like period cramps. has this happened to anybody before??

[Foxy]

i sometimes get a lot of pain
and i think it only took a few secs or 2nd orgasms because you were already at your sexual climax/peak

[ackmedsgirl666]

makes sense then :)

[workingatperfect]

I'm not sure about this, but I think read somewhere that your muscles contracting and relaxing over and over when you orgasm just kinda overworks them. Strengthening the muscles through Kegel exercises seems to have helped me with the cramps. You could also be causing a bit of scratching or bruising when you finger.

As for the orgasm thing, yeah, you're basically already experiencing so much pleasure from your last one, the next one comes more easily.

[ackmedsgirl666]

ahhh alright sounds good
and i shall look into these excersizes
the pain is the worst whenever me and my boyfriend have sex..
and another note... how do i know if i have orgasmed when hasving sex with him because i never feel it happen but im always wet?

[workingatperfect]

If the pain is worse during sex, you may want to get an exam then. It could be nothing, but better safe than sorry right?

Hmm, well I think you just know, you orgasm when you masturbate right? It'd be the same basic feeling I guess.

[ackmedsgirl666]

thats the thing tho i never feel it... is it because like hes inside me... and i dont feel anything release because hes inside me... and yeah i cramp when he gets me off before we have sex and then i have a little cramping during. i used to bleed before during intercourse but now i dont... but theres something he hits whenever we do doggy style idk what it is hes hitting but it causes some discomfort

[AkuRokuStalker]

The more orgasms you have the more sensitive you become. The cramps are probably because you are doing it to much and need to back off. I've had that happen to me before. I hope that helps.

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok thanks

[emily-candace]

We multi orgasm, guys can't but I can't explain the pains.