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ackmedsgirl666
November 16th, 2012, 01:48 AM
i seem to be watching alot of lesbian porn lately... and i am not a lesbian i dont even think i am attracted to women sexually anymore....

however i still watch lesbian porn and i get especially turned on if there is oral sex involved.. whats wrong with me..

am i still sexually attracted to women. does this mean i dont want to be with my boyfriend anymore.... i feel so bad yet bit feels good when i touch myself to these videos :@

ReginaGeorge
November 16th, 2012, 02:19 AM
Lots of straight-identifying women love lesbian porn. It doesn't mean they're bisexual or not straight, or don't like men, it just means they like to look. It's common, and it's normal.

Even if it turns out you are sexually attracted to women, it does not mean you are gay, or don't want you're boyfriend at all. Sexuality is not black and white, and can constantly change for some people. From the sounds of your post, yours has changed as well.

Only you can answer the last two questions, and just because the answer might be yes to one, it doesn't mean it will be yes for the other.

Just be you, and let yourself like whatever you like. Open up and let it flow and you'll find out in a little time. :)

Lost in the Echo
November 16th, 2012, 02:21 AM
Well you can't control what turns you on, or who you love.
But if you still love your boyfriend, then you still want to be with him, you just feel guilty because of what turns you on. But relationships are built on and are supposed to be built on emotional attraction, not physical attraction, yes it helps to be with someone who you love to have sex with, but sex shouldn't be what makes or breaks a relationship, it should be about love, not sex.

So if you're still in love with your boyfriend, then you should continue being with him, even if it's lesbian porn that turns you on and not him, it's not a good reason to end a relationship.
So if you continue to be aroused by girls, then there is nothing you can do about it, but if your boyfriend loves you enough, then he will accept that.
Relationships are a 2 way street, both people have to work together to make them work, not just one.

justinglives
November 16th, 2012, 02:29 AM
Its the same as "str8" guys who like to watch / get turned on / jerk off to gay male porn.
Sex is sex, and sex is hot!and getting excited or turned is not bad no matter where it comes from.
((With the obvious exceptions.......young kids, animals, etc))

ackmedsgirl666
November 16th, 2012, 02:32 AM
alright well thanks
glad im not looked as as not normal :)

Twilly F. Sniper
November 16th, 2012, 08:01 AM
Probably just like lez porn. I was in this situation when I was 11. (Lol XD) (I would actually watch gay porn!) Not joking.

ackmedsgirl666
November 16th, 2012, 05:21 PM
i also watch gay porn and seeing oral sex between 2 guys is a big turn for me.. but seeing anal.. well not so much

CallumMH95
November 17th, 2012, 04:03 PM
That doesn't mean anything sweetie, don't worry!
The type of porn you enjoy watching doesn't decide your sexuality. It's totally normal :)
And as for your boyfriend, if you still love him and you haven't actually been with someone else other than him then you have nothing to feel bad about :D

Eth_94123
March 8th, 2013, 07:00 PM
There is nothing wrong with you!

StoppingTime
March 8th, 2013, 07:01 PM
OP is banned, and this was bumped. :locked: