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[ackmedsgirl666]

i dont want to insult my boyfriend but basically we have sex so much that i dont enjoy it as much as i used to.... before when we had sex i would be clung to him and i was very vocal during our sex... and i would get tingles uo and down my spine and now no more nice feelings.... im not as loud anymore... and i pretty much just lay there and let him do all the work...

how can i change the emotions i feel towards sex and what could be causing my chain reaction... and how can i fix it

I AM NOT ASKING FOR SEXUAL ACTIVITY ADVICE!!!!

[ReginaGeorge]

Tell him exactly what you just told us. Ask to spice it up, or just for a bit less. Don't feel like you have to have sex, because you don't. Sit down, and tell him about it.

[ackmedsgirl666]

i will when he comes back home :)
i think its also because of me
i have performance issues
he says i am great in bed but i just dont agree :(

[Zoe16]

Lose him. Its over. You need some variety in your life.

[Kelasta]

I have the exact same thing with my boyfriend so we make sure sometimes we do just oral and stuff until we're both really gagging for it hah

[workingatperfect]

Basically what someone else said, don't do it unless YOU want to, and maybe cut back, focus more on foreplay so you're actually into it when you do have sex. Also, I've noticed you guys seem to be having quite a few problems, and it's kinda cheesy, but they always say, your brain is the biggest sex organ. Your personal issues and insecurities with him can definitely interfere with how you feel in bed. I suggest working on those, it'll not only improve your relationship, but your sex life as well.

[ackmedsgirl666]

thanks kelasta. thats how it usually ends up.. we get eachother so worked up i eventually give in...

working at perfect: thanks as well and i agree with everything you have said :)