too soon?

[ArtistInNeed]

do you believe in "too soon"? Too soon as in too soon for sex in a new relationship (1 week.) My friends have been going out for a week and they want to have sex. My bf says he thinks its too early for them, but i dont think so. I think sex and other sexual things are never too soon, i think they should happen when you want them to happen.

[Aηdy]

I think a week is definetely too early, you shouldn't commit yourself after such a short time I don't think. Although others may think different, that's how I feel.

[Sapphire]

I think it spells out disaster for a couple of teens to go straight to having sex after such a short period of time.
Though it is ultimately up to them. If they both agree that they want it and it remains a consentual thing that doesn't interfere with them doing other things (as a couple and with friends) then things should be fine.

[ArtistInNeed]

i want to give her advice, i dont think she should be having sex so early as well. How long do you think I should tell her to wait?

[Sapphire]

It's difficult to give a time limit on things like this as it varies due to different circumstances etc. And tbh I'm not sure what you could say. Maybe tell her that you think she should wait a bit to allow her and her new boyfriend to bond in a platonic way before moving things into the bedroom or something along those lines?

[ArtistInNeed]

thanks :) ill do that

[byee]

The length of time it takes people to get comfortable enough with eachother to have sex varies. For those who value emotional closeness with their intimacy, that takes some time, you have to get to know the person, and given how complex people are, it's certainly more than a week!

If you want a way to tell her it's too early, how about 'I think it's too early for you and he to have sex. you don't really know him well enough to be that personal with him just yet. Give it some time.".

[TeenGirl012]

1 Week is definetly tooo early. You don't even know if your commited to this guy. I wouldn't lose your virginity to a guy that you don't know if he has had sex before and has a communical disease.

[Gumleaf]

i think you need time to get to know eachother very well before getting involved in sexualactivities. a week is far too soon.

[amandamarril]

I think a week is definetely too early, you shouldn't commit yourself after such a short time I don't think. Although others may think different, that's how I feel.

but sex isnt a commitment its a spontaneous action

[notsure101]

yeah definatly a week is too soon they should wait a little long i waited 3 years so yeah they should wait

[Bryceboy19]

do you believe in "too soon"? Too soon as in too soon for sex in a new relationship (1 week.) My friends have been going out for a week and they want to have sex. My bf says he thinks its too early for them, but i dont think so. I think sex and other sexual things are never too soon, i think they should happen when you want them to happen.

I don't think it's wrong nessasarley but, it matters of how the both of you feel