break things off

[sieg]

so, i have a reall small class. like maybe 11 people. so i sit next to this kid and start talking to him. turns out we have similar interests like video games etc. well, i kind of need to break things off with him because he's gotten pretty possessive over me, and quite frankly I am not gonna be his bitch. so, any advice on how to break things off kind of easy? i don't want to crush him, but he isn't picking up on small things like avoiding conversation with him, acting annoyed with him. please don't reply : "oh he just doesn't have any friends, don't take that away from him!" i know now why he doesnt have many friends. he's a dick. thank you in advance.

[Inventor2]

thats tuff., but i do know how you feel. I dont really know if there is a nice way to do this, but i would talk to him and tell him. If you tell him the truth and what hes doing he will have to understand. See what im saying? So i sugest to stop hinting and just plain tell him hes being really possessive over you and you dont like it. I hope this helps, its not much but its an idea!

[ackmedsgirl666]

basically you need to explain to him thats his behavior towards you is inappropriate and you want him to stop his possessiveness. tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable

[Ryhanna]

Talk to him. Tell him that you don't like the way he's treating you. If I were in this situation, I'd just do that and see if he stops, because it seems kind of cruel to dump a kid who doesn't have a lot of friends, but it's understandable if you just want to leave things there.

[DerBear]

so, i have a reall small class. like maybe 11 people. so i sit next to this kid and start talking to him. turns out we have similar interests like video games etc. well, i kind of need to break things off with him because he's gotten pretty possessive over me, and quite frankly I am not gonna be his bitch. so, any advice on how to break things off kind of easy? i don't want to crush him, but he isn't picking up on small things like avoiding conversation with him, acting annoyed with him. please don't reply : "oh he just doesn't have any friends, don't take that away from him!" i know now why he doesnt have many friends. he's a dick. thank you in advance.

My advice would be to do it quick. Just tell him straight up, don't beat around the bush about it. Just tell him and say to him that you think he is too possessive and that you think it would be best if you don't hand out with him anymore.

Also another piece of advice would be to talk to your teacher about moving seats in the class, this would also help drive home the message of no longer wanting to be friends.

[sieg]

thanks guys.

[FergusDunn]

break things off
so, i have a reall small class. like maybe 11 people. so i sit next to this kid and start talking to him. turns out we have similar interests like video games etc. well, i kind of need to break things off with him because he's gotten pretty possessive over me, and quite frankly I am not gonna be his bitch. so, any advice on how to break things off kind of easy? i don't want to crush him, but he isn't picking up on small things like avoiding conversation with him, acting annoyed with him. please don't reply : "oh he just doesn't have any friends, don't take that away from him!" i know now why he doesnt have many friends. he's a dick. thank you in advance.

Can you sit away from him ?

Can you just say to him you find him annoying or even this might be hard just like tune him out - ignore - you say you dont want to crush him - but he is th eone crushing you by his behaviour -

[LouBerry]

Just freak him out. Tell him you like men, or do weird things in front of him.

[Mikedamaniak]

Essentially just tell him he's a dick only in a nice way

[FreeFall]

I don't think you can really pry someone who has become posessive of you, off in an easy way. They tend to go down with flashing lights and a bang. There are some exceptions but don't grab onto hope it'd be smooth.

Anyways I'm assuming you've gone through with it by now so how'd it go (: how are you?