Should I were a condom?

[Texas warrior]

So me and my girlfriend are getting together in December to have sex, She lives out of state. She doesn't have a STD and is on the pill so I was wandering if I should still were a condom.................

[Shining Star]

So me and my girlfriend are getting together in December to have sex, She lives out of state. She doesn't have a STD and is on the pill so I was wandering if I should still were a condom.................

Simple answer...YES.
Dont take any chances, be safe :)

[WickedWeekend]

Yes. Don't even think otherwise. Birth control can fail. Better safe than sorry.

[Mike753]

It doesn't hurt to do it, so why wouldn't you :P

[Lost in the Echo]

Honestly I wouldn't, me and my gf have sex and she's on the pill. And so far, it's been fine for us.
And honestly, condoms aren't 100% guaranteed to prevent pregnancies either becauuse they can rip and shit during intercourse.

So ultimately it's your decision, do what you think will be the best for you :)

[Hungman]

id advise to wear one, better safe then sorry.

[IAMWILL]

Honestly I wouldn't, me and my gf have sex and she's on the pill. And so far, it's been fine for us.
And honestly, condoms aren't 100% guaranteed to prevent pregnancies either becauuse they can rip and shit during intercourse.

So ultimately it's your decision, do what you think will be the best for you :)

Bo although I almost always agree with you. I do not here. You DEFINITELY should wear a condom. You can get STDs and STIs even if neither of you have them. Girls can contract about 30, boys mainly contract only 4. Those 4 are viruses (Herpes, HIV, HPV, and Hepatitis), that are incurable. The other 26 are bacterial infections primarily women get, they can cause tissue scarring that leads to infertility, among various other physical effects, and furthermore can cause big emotional trauma. You don't want to do that to your girlfriend, do you? Also, many STDs and STIs can be aquired without having sex, such as Herpes. You ever have a canker sore? Thats HSV-1, aka Herpes. Your girlfriend has that and gives you a blowjob, and your not protected, you get HSV-2, Herpes, which is PERMANENT and causes ugly ugly genital warts.

I'm not even going to bring up pregnancy, that should be pretty obvious. But let me just say that 90% of teenage parents never graduate college, and ALL women, with the possible execption of rape victims, regret abortions. Even adoption hurts. Pretty much if she gets pregnant, your lives are going to SUCK. You are not ready to have a family. No teenager is.

Condoms make sex better anyways. The decreased sensitivity means you last longer, and together with say ribbed condoms, you can give your girlfriend more pleasure for longer. Isn't that why you are doing it in the first place, for her?

Look I am not trying to ruin your day here, but I am being extremely serious and 100% adamamt when I say wear a condom. I don't think I can emphasize it any more. You are taking a HUGE risk by not doing it, and frankly it is immature to not where a condom. And its unfair for your girl, they are at a much greater risk than guys. Listen to me here, please, wear a condom. I'm putting a lot of effort into this post because I seriously care about these issues, I truly hope you make the right decision.

[Lost in the Echo]

Bo although I almost always agree with you. I do not here. You DEFINITELY should wear a condom. You can get STDs and STIs even if neither of you have them. Girls can contract about 30, boys mainly contract only 4. Those 4 are viruses (Herpes, HIV, HPV, and Hepatitis), that are incurable. The other 26 are bacterial infections primarily women get, they can cause tissue scarring that leads to infertility, among various other physical effects, and furthermore can cause big emotional trauma. You don't want to do that to your girlfriend, do you? Also, many STDs and STIs can be aquired without having sex, such as Herpes. You ever have a canker sore? Thats HSV-1, aka Herpes. Your girlfriend has that and gives you a blowjob, and your not protected, you get HSV-2, Herpes, which is PERMANENT and causes ugly ugly genital warts.

I'm not even going to bring up pregnancy, that should be pretty obvious. But let me just say that 90% of teenage parents never graduate college, and ALL women, with the possible execption of rape victims, regret abortions. Even adoption hurts. Pretty much if she gets pregnant, your lives are going to SUCK. You are not ready to have a family. No teenager is.

Condoms make sex better anyways. The decreased sensitivity means you last longer, and together with say ribbed condoms, you can give your girlfriend more pleasure for longer. Isn't that why you are doing it in the first place, for her?

Look I am not trying to ruin your day here, but I am being extremely serious and 100% adamamt when I say wear a condom. I don't think I can emphasize it any more. You are taking a HUGE risk by not doing it, and frankly it is immature to not where a condom. And its unfair for your girl, they are at a much greater risk than guys. Listen to me here, please, wear a condom. I'm putting a lot of effort into this post because I seriously care about these issues, I truly hope you make the right decision.

Ok, I will :)
I probably wasn't thinking much when I posted what I did :P

Also, you educated me more on the dangers of unprotected sex, I thought I knew all there was to know about STD's but obviously I didn't.
I appreciate your post, and next time I will use a condom:)

[Matt_2012]

Yeah wear one for sure, better to be safe then sorry.
Like others said the pills aren't full proof.

[Ryhanna]

Yes, you should. No form of birth control is 100% effective, so it's good to take every precaution that you can.

[Emerald Dream]

Absolutely wear a condom. You never know what may happen.

[niceguy44]

yes. it's better to be safe than sorry. don't take risks

[Human]

safety is everyone's best fwiend...

[PinkFloyd]

Yep your gonna want to use the rubber because the pill can fail.

[The Madman]

Yes. You'd be a fool not to

[Gigablue]

You should wear one. The pill can fail, and the chances of both a condom and the pill failing is immensely small. A condom will reduce the chance of pregnancy, though its small to begin with.

Bo although I almost always agree with you. I do not here. You DEFINITELY should wear a condom. You can get STDs and STIs even if neither of you have them. Girls can contract about 30, boys mainly contract only 4. Those 4 are viruses (Herpes, HIV, HPV, and Hepatitis), that are incurable. The other 26 are bacterial infections primarily women get, they can cause tissue scarring that leads to infertility, among various other physical effects, and furthermore can cause big emotional trauma. You don't want to do that to your girlfriend, do you? Also, many STDs and STIs can be aquired without having sex, such as Herpes. You ever have a canker sore? Thats HSV-1, aka Herpes. Your girlfriend has that and gives you a blowjob, and your not protected, you get HSV-2, Herpes, which is PERMANENT and causes ugly ugly genital warts.

You can't get an STI if neither of you have one. It's just not possible. You could get one if one of you is infected but isn't showing any symptoms, however. Also, there are more than 4 STIs that affect boys, and both sexes can get all or most STIs.

Also, if your girlfriend has HSV-1 and gives you a blowjob, you risk getting HSV-1, no HSV-2. They are separate viruses.

[Coolboi]

Yessss always an bee safe std are all around us .
Be safe lol

[mustangboi]

Yes sometimes she will say she is on the pill but she is actual no so dude just be safe

[michael.95]

The pill isn't always totally safe so unless you want a child then I'd wear rubber.

[IAMWILL]

You can't get an STI if neither of you have one. It's just not possible. You could get one if one of you is infected but isn't showing any symptoms, however. Also, there are more than 4 STIs that affect boys, and both sexes can get all or most STIs.

Also, if your girlfriend has HSV-1 and gives you a blowjob, you risk getting HSV-1, no HSV-2. They are separate viruses.

You are correct, I should not have included STIs, I just misrembered and didn't check myself. However I always wonder if you can't get STIs if neither of you have them, how the heck did they originate in the first place? Lol.

And I said boys mainly get the 4 viruses, however it is much easier and more frequent for girls to aquire bacterial diseases. Boys do not contract them that often, but I didn't say they cannot or never get them.

And that was a typo with HSV-2, again I didn't bother checking my post, it takes too long on my phone.

[Texas warrior]

You say the pill can fail, but so can a condom. In fact it's more likely too. You don't know how old a condom is or if it will rip

[AkuRokuStalker]

You should ALWAYS wear a condom!! Just because she is on the pill doesn't mean she can't get pregnant, it just lowers the risk.

[Saxophone 44]

And honestly, condoms aren't 100% guaranteed to prevent pregnancies either becauuse they can rip and shit during intercourse.

I'm just throwing this out there: do condoms actually shit during your fun time? Because if so, the guy at my school's health center forgot to mention something...

But YES!!! Wear a condom. My friend just got pregnant, even though she was on the pill. Not fun for her. Please wear a condom.

[Ellie wood crainey]

yes unless you want a child!

[vhs 46862]

Always use a condom!

[Danny_boi 16]

yes!!!
always use a condom

[Sean4U]

haven't really read anything but the tag line and the answer is YES wear a rubber .....safety is key

[brianabyington]

Yes of course you should.

[ramgoat647]

Even though she doesn't have any STDs or there is seemingly no change of getting pregnant, you should never take a chance. Now, the responsible thing to do is not to have sex at all but I don't think thats an option. :) If your every wondering if you should wear a condom, think of what having a baby at such a young age will do in your life.

[brianabyington]

Yes You should

[ItsChelsea]

Birth control can fail, and babies are forever.

[AwesomeGuy15]

yea it worth it

[LouBerry]

Are you made of stupid? God yes. Wrap your willy before you get silly.

[FergusDunn]

Yes you should -

If you have not used condoms b4 then get some and just practice -

masturbate just to get used to the feeling maybe

[RAGE DJ]

hell yeah and if u don't still pull out

[iSwim]

Birth control can still fail. It is unlikely but yes it can so my answer would be yes.

Hope this helped

[Myxox]

If you want to be safe, wear one. It's a decision you both should make together.

[nklarke]

YES.

[Harley Quinn]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: