stop?

[thebgsamuel]

i some times wonder if i should or not stop masterbating... i duno if thers actually a reason why but sometimes i feel kinda addicted to it and want to stop but i just cant.
and should i stop for any reason, are ther any consequences...
please help! :)

[Giles]

If you want to stop masturbating then go ahead, there's nothing stopping you. The 'health benefits' that apparently exist when you masturbate regularly aren't important and there will be no physical negatives to not masturbating. You may find that your body does still excrete the semen that you would usually ejaculate, probably in the form of a nocturnal emission, but aside from that it really doesn't matter.

[justinglives]

Personally, I see nothing wrong with it unless it interfers w ure life.
Like u don't go to classes, fail to eat, etc.

[Gigablue]

If it interferes with your life, you should probably cut back, but otherwise, it probably isn't a problem. If you do stop, your body will get rid of any ex ex semen through nocturnal emissions.

[sdude]

If you want to stop masturbating then go ahead, there's nothing stopping you. The 'health benefits' that apparently exist when you masturbate regularly aren't important and there will be no physical negatives to not masturbating. You may find that your body does still excrete the semen that you would usually ejaculate, probably in the form of a nocturnal emission, but aside from that it really doesn't matter.

Really Giles, you surprise me with this answer, there are many physical & emotional benefits with masturbation and they are well documented. The release and pleasure alone are enough to make a person more content and stable. The practice of learning to sexually please yourself helps in preparing you for pleasing your partner...for both sexes. The release of semen in your sleep does NOT give you the release of sexual tension that masturbation does....you are quite negligent in the answer on this one.

[Ussb823]

In my opinion, I feel that it rather 'releases' my stresses, it also helps me go to sleep, because I have always had problems with going to sleep. For negative consequences there really aren't any for doing it or not doing it.

[Giles]

Really Giles, you surprise me with this answer, there are many physical & emotional benefits with masturbation and they are well documented.

I didn't say there weren't any benefits, although I am sceptical about some. I actually said that they're not important, which they're not, otherwise it would be commonplace as medical advice to go and masturbate.

The release and pleasure alone are enough to make a person more content and stable.

That is completely subjective. Who's to say which is better? People are entirely different in this area, some people may find that they are more effective at their job, more enthusiastic, have more energy etc. if they don't masturbate. Whereas others find it, for example, difficult to concentrate without masturbating regularly.

The practice of learning to sexually please yourself helps in preparing you for pleasing your partner...for both sexes.

Not sure what you're trying to say here, but it makes no sense. Masturbating and pleasing a partner are not the same thing, there's little you can do/learn when you're masturbating that will be of any use outside of masturbating.

The release of semen in your sleep does NOT give you the release of sexual tension that masturbation does....

Nor did I say it did. A nocturnal emission releases the excess semen that your body has created but does not need because it is not being released during intercourse or masturbation.

[brandon1995]

I woundn't trust some of the info in this thread, I'd like to answer your questions but I don't have Skype.

[deanbrodi]

Samuel, there are NO reasons to try & stop masturbating. Even if you're needing to do it 4 times a day, that's NOT being addicted - that's how often I needed to do it when
I was 14, & I still came dux of my class in maths. None of us teen boys can stop ourselves - it's just too beautiful to stop, that's how sex is meant to be. :)

There ARE consequences to trying to stop masturbating - it's impossible to get off to sleep at night when you're horny as hell, you start to feel like a failure when you keep on failing in your attempts to not masturbate, & you're never as happy anymore, 'cos you keep stopping yourself from having that mighty rush of excitement & joy, that you actually need as a stress reliever.

I wonder if you've been told a heap of lies by some christian preacher, or read some lies about masturbation in a christian book?

[brandon1995]

Thers no reason to stop masturbatin. It feels good and it doesn't do any harm unless you do it constantly, then you might want to take a break.

[dvd333]

Take it day by day. Cut back a little and see how you feel. Its not a bad thing. You will feel edgy and more sexually frustrated the longer you go...

[NORTH.KN16HT]

I've tried to quit as well but it never lasts long and I continue to jack off. I think it's more of a personal chioce...

[Anonimi]

masturbating, like coffee, is only good for you, there is no way it could hurt you (well nothing more than moving your hand up and down your arm will cause, and maybe coffee can be bad if its hot and poured over you, but it isn't bout coffee is it)
so there is no reason to stop, actually since masturbation relieves stress, its bad to stop, but if you want, completely stop and just don't do it, if you have enough will, you can do it, but only if you have the motivation to stop, otherwise, keep on jacking