Friend masturbated in front of me

[Beach Princess]

I was spending the night with a friend a couple of weekends ago and in the morning (Saturday) we started talking about sexual things, but neither of is did anything. Then she went to go take a shower. She got out and I got in. When I got out I walked into her room from the bathroom and she was laying on her bed with her robe open and she was masturbating openly, and very hard, like she was about to orgasm. I am sort of frozen not know what to do and she does actually orgasm. I turn and go back in the bathroom and she just says, sorry, she was trying to get done before I got out.

It was just really weird but we still hang out together. I wondered what was going on. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

[Lost in the Echo]

Yeah that is pretty weird, maybe she's just the type of person who is really horny and can't control it.
I think the best thing to do right now is nothing, if it continues to happen though, then you should bring it up to her and tell her to do that in private, and not when you're around.

[KillerKing]

Wow, I think I would run out the house in like, whatever was around me after I got out the shower. Okay, no, I'd probably freeze up too and slowly back out like I'd walked in and wolf was snaring out me from the bed.

Anyway!!!! If it really made you feel uncomfortable you should at least say something. Or maybe be a little light hearted and like, understand why she does it but make it clear you didn't exactly like being in the vicinity of her while she was doing it.

[Athlete15]

You probably just have a really horny friend who didn't have a very good idea of how long it takes you to shower. I wouldn't read too much into it if I were you, assuming it doesn't become a regular thing.

[FreeFall]

Uhm. I have no advice for that really other than that's very awkward but I think the sexual talk just got her horny and she thought "oh I got a few minutes let me squeeze in a quickie". I don't think it means anything though or like if you should or can do anything?

[WickedWeekend]

It's over now. She probably knows you were uncomfortable with it because she said sorry. Go on with it. Never mention it again. She's probably the type who can't control her horniness. If it happens again tell her you are bothered by it. Because if she isn't careful, she doesn't think you are bothered.

[Beach Princess]

Thanks

[DerBear]

I think generally what happened what how you said it did. I mean I don't think she had an alternative motive behind what went on.

Basically you and her were talking about sexual things in which she got horny, you left the room to shower and she thought she would be able to masturbate before you got back and obviously she was caught up in what happened and never heard you come back through to the room.

I don't think its anything that needs to be taken further, I mean if you don't feel comfortable hanging out with her then fair enough but you said you don't mind hanging out with her still so that doesn't even have to enter the equation.

Honestly she is probably embarrassed about the whole thing. So maybe its best to put it out of your mind and sorta pretend it didn't happen. On the other hand, if you really want to discuss it with her then you can. Just be prepared not to get a very good answer or have awkwardness in your friendship.

[saul1026]

thats a little wierd and maybe she wanted you to see or she turned on by you taking a shower

[crashing]

she probably judged your shower time by hers. It was probably an honest mistake. Or perhaps she took your sexual conversation as a hint that you might want to do something and she would try that to see how you reacted. I doubt it, but I dont know your fried. probably just wanted to hurry up and get one done

[PrimedPenguin]

Hmm that's a tid bit odd I would suggest not looking to deep into it I doubt it will turn into a daily occurance

[dingo006]

It was just really weird but we still hang out together. I wondered what was going on. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Hey, dont be afraid to talk about it. It would be better to put her mind at ease then ignore it. I mean if you give her the benefit of the doubt or that you dont think its weird then itll be easier to move on from the weirdness.

[tifferslove13]

I will admit I have done that because I was really turned on and I really wanted to see if she was into me, luckily she was but I can see how akward it was for you. Maybe she was just too scared to say anything but thought she could explain the masturbation away if you didn't like it.

[teen.jpg]

I can't imagine the awkwardness...

Let it pass, unless it happens again. And if it does, then you should talk to her about it.

[ForeverAlon]

maybe she wanted you to help if you know what I mean

[anyone50]

It's fairly obvious what was going on since i'm guessing she could hear when you turned the shower off she wanted you to walk in on her and her motives could be anything from wanting to see your reaction to her wanting to see if you would be open to sexual experimentation. in any case she wanted you to see her masturbating so in a way she has layed her cards on the table and the rest is pretty much up to you.

You didn't say how you felt after seeing her just you thought it was wierd and that you still hang out together. Guess you have to ask yourself if you wished you had reacted differently and how. If you have no interest in exploring sexuality with another girl than i wouldn't mention the incident and i'm sure she won't bring it up knowing she threw out the pitch and no one caught it. I'm sure she feels more awkward about it than you becuase she put herself out there not knowing how you would react. Sounds like your still friends so no harm no foul

[silkysmoove]

That would be an interesting way to start off a new conversation lol.

[Jenny jr]

I don't even know what to say about that.

[Steve Hala]

lol yeah i have nothing to say