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ariel22
November 14th, 2012, 12:54 PM
PLEASE READ IT, YOU GUYS ARE MY ONLY CHANCE

Hey mates.. ask me or not but i feel depression. a really deep kind of depression..:/.
i falled in love for the first time in a crappy situation.
im 13, and theres a girl in our class. also theres my best friend, a boy (not gay)
i was falling in love for like 2 years.. since i was 12, i was very fat.
i was 140 cm tall and weight above 80 kilograms.
the girl, fantastic girl, maked me wanna start do a diet.
summer break came and i did an agressive diet, about 25 kilos for 3 month.
i was proud at myself, thinking about that girl. couldnt wait no longer, wanted to meet her again so bad.
here comes my friend to the picture.
i was talking to her. ''here and there''.. no personal stuff, or something with trust.. just talked, on school, and wussup and like that.
im very shy and she is the only girl i was talking to her without any fear..
i toled her she is pretty, she said im cute and started bond to me more but this is it for now.
i dont think she thinks that about me till now, it was for like 3 days and over.
i expected that. my best friend also think she is pretty. seems she likes him more then me, AND ITS KILLING ME, feeling im eaten, alive.
jealousy isnt the right thing, and i usualy dont like that, he is a cool bro though, But sometimes i think i want to just kill him.
he has a girlfriend, but he is still trying to flirt with her, allso i said to him that i love her very much and he still. well idk i wouldnt call it a flirt but still.
i saw hes facebook chat with her. pretty usual. but they're chat seems to be more interesting then our chat(me and her).
Im trying to forget her. cant.
2 years of damn misery, with awful feelings. my friend and her speaking more then me and her. and that fact just killing me.
i know i cant say to my friend to leave her alone, who am i by saying that, hes mom? but i still need to figure it out.
please tell me what to do, or give me advices to make us more bond (girls can be great at that though), IM BEGGING YOU GUYS, please :'(

Apollo.
November 14th, 2012, 03:06 PM
I was in the same situation as your friend was a while ago, I was in denial about being gay and was flirting with loads of girls. My friend that liked the girl I was flirting with just came straight out with it that he liked her to me. To me if he's a real friend and has a girlfriend (that means he probably doesn't have any strong feelings towards the girl you like) if you said that you liked her to him he would back off.

As for the girl keep trying with your conversations don't be that guy that always reverts back to talking about himself. Then try and invite her out just you and her not like a date but just to get to know each other. Be yourself around her I can tell when someone is putting on an act a mile away and I'm sure most people are the same. Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself don't try and be that guy with 'swag' that's a monumental bell end! In my experience girls love a guy that can laugh at himself isn't to serious. Once you two can have a real fun good time together it will be a lot easier for you to tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same. Good luck with it and don't feel bad if things don't go to plan it seems like the end of the world at the time but you will find another girl in time :hug: