How to be happy for me?

[amscramhick]

My boyfriend broke up with me a little over three weeks ago. We dated for a year exactly. This was our second break up. We wanted to get bac together but I decided to do something for myself and not let it happen. But I don't know how tone happy anymore. I feel like I'm back to myselfbefore him. Which wasn't good. And part of me is still in love with him. How can I be friends with him, because we divided to stay friends?

[codyandkrista]

I know how you feel. When me and my boyfriend broke up I was heart broken. Felt like I could no longer be happy. Back to the way things were before. But, it turns out it was good that we did. The two moths we spent apart I realized I made myself I NEEDED him to be happy. And that is not a good thing, at all. My advice is see someone who can help you. Someone who will teach you to be happy and not need someone to lean on. Because once I learned how to do that, me and my boyfriend got back together and we are happier than we have ever been because we don't rely on each other. You can love someone without needing them to make you happy. Just be friends for now. It will be tough but it will get better.