Ive Finally Come to a Decision!

[PinkFloyd]

So me and my girlfriend have been having sex for the passed 8 months and hiding it from our parents. Ive decided to have her family over to my house and were gonna stand up and announce that were doing it safely. I think itll go really well but im scared too. We think its a good idea. Your thoughts?

[West Coast Sheriff]

They might get really upset and force the two of you to break up. But if it's worth risking that, then I think you should. Good luck and I hope everything goes well:D

[LouBerry]

Well, good luck to you. I mean, honesty's the best policy and all that, but my parents and Seth's (My boyfriend) Would freak out.

[Mirage]

Good luck dude, make sure to tell us how it goes.

[FreeFall]

Why do your parents need to know your sex life? If that's what works for you two, more power to you but...why? I think they can just assume that they've raised sensible kids who are sensible about things, like safe sex.
But I feel the only people that need to know I'm having sex is me and the one I'm having sex with. And my doctor but that's different. My parents don't really need to know that my vagina's in use when they're not around and that a condom's being used every time. I think as time goes on they'll just assume it.

[Lost in the Echo]

That's taking a big gamble, but I wish you good luck.
Hopefully they don't get pissed :P

Since you're doing it safely though, they MIGHT be ok with it, hopefully...

[Castle of Glass]

good luck. just make sure your gf's dad doesn't own a gun :P but as you are including that you are doing it safely, they may not freak out. but better telling them than them walking in on the two of you.

[KillerKing]

I suppose this really depends on each of your relationships with your parents. If both of you have very open relationships and they have talked about sex with you then they might be OK with what your thinking of doing and most likely be thankful. But, I just think the best thing to do would be for each of you to reassure your parents individually. I don't know about anyone else but if I was parent round my child's partners house and then both of them stand up at the same time with the look that they want to say something, I would panic like hell! Alarm bells would ring, Heart/Blood pressure would increase, assumptions would be going through my head, you know, the whole shabang! 'Omg, they are gonna tell us they're having a baby and keeping it at the age of 14'!

I just don't think there's a reason to make a 'big deal' over it.

[Athlete15]

As long as you tell them in a mature way I have feeling that they are going to be pretty alright with it. Granted, I am sure they still never want to see or hear you guys getting intimate, it should help relieve tension and ease their minds that you guys are having protected sex and that you do truly love each other.

Best of luck, let us know how it goes.

[PinkFloyd]

good luck. just make sure your gf's dad doesn't own a gun :P but as you are including that you are doing it safely, they may not freak out. but better telling them than them walking in on the two of you.

well I own a gun too. :D

[PinkFloyd]

Im having them over tonight at 6:30 my time.. Ill keep you guys updated.

[Castle of Glass]

well I own a gun too. :D

only in 'merica :P

[PinkFloyd]

only in 'merica :P

Yep i shoot mah gun and eat mah bacon covered double chicken fried steak! :D

[Ryhanna]

I could never do this, as I believe that my sex life is nobodies business by my own, but I think it's great that you're willing to be honest with your parents. Good luck! :)

[Jupiter]

Why do your parents need to know your sex life? If that's what works for you two, more power to you but...why? I think they can just assume that they've raised sensible kids who are sensible about things, like safe sex.
But I feel the only people that need to know I'm having sex is me and the one I'm having sex with. And my doctor but that's different. My parents don't really need to know that my vagina's in use when they're not around and that a condom's being used every time. I think as time goes on they'll just assume it.

Exactly. I'm not really sure what you have to gain but unneeded pride.

[HunterSteele]

well I own a gun too. :D
Great, opening yourself up to the opportunity of a gun fight in your home. That's smart.

[PinkFloyd]

Great, opening yourself up to the opportunity of a gun fight in your home. That's smart.

Yes we were afraid of the redponce but when we announced it they said they were actually happy for us and that they had no problem with it as long as we use protection. Theres also the fact that weve been together for a good 2 years.

[Castle of Glass]

Yes we were afraid of the redponce but when we announced it they said they were actually happy for us and that they had no problem with it as long as we use protection. Theres also the fact that weve been together for a good 2 years.

well, good to here that it all went well. have fun ;)

[PinkFloyd]

well, good to here that it all went well. have fun ;)

Ill do my best :D

[Sudds3]

Well congrats man!mjust make sure that you really are being safe and always wear a condom, no matter what! Like seriously. And she should probably be on the pill too just to be sure. But i was not expecting it to go that well but good for you two that it did! Have fun and be safe

[PinkFloyd]

I could never do this, as I believe that my sex life is nobodies business by my own, but I think it's great that you're willing to be honest with your parents. Good luck! :)

Yep we already talked to them and they said that it was fine as long as we A: use protection and B: not let it take over our lives. (it has) but thanks for the support!

[Mikedamaniak]

Just wait till your 18 to tell them. That way you get no risk and all the reward.