Unsure

[garretking]

So this is going to sound like a typical issue but i still would love some advice. So I am pretty sure i am gay but I am afraid i am only gay becuse when i started watching porn it was gay porn. You see i was working on a project and google images searched boys and before long i was watching gay porn. Now as i got older i started watching normal porn but i always prefered gay. I am just afraid that i have conditioned myself to be gay and am not actully gay. Thoughts?

[ackmedsgirl666]

your probably just curious. by watching gay porn doesnt make you gay your just have a stronger preference for males... i cant label you nor can anybody on here.

[TigerBoy]

If you've never had any urge to look at girls in porn (or had any interest in them in real life), and you think you are gay yourself then yep, sounds like you are gay to me. You can't 'make' yourself gay just by watching gay porn, don't worry. The scientific consensus is that sexual identity is predetermined before you are born, and that sexual identity cannot be changed.

I had the same thing - no interest in girls, only ever looked at boys or gay porn because it was all I was interested in. Made it very easy for me, some guys have a more confusing time of it (especially Bi guys from talking to people on VT).

[KillerKing]

It seems you discovered porn the opposite way and the type of porn you watch doesn't decide your sexuality. You can't condition yourself to be gay, if this were true anti-gay protestors would be having a hell of a time going round 'conditioning' gay people to be straight by forcing straight porn on them XD.

Joking aside, I don't know how old you are but just give it time. Don't care about what type of porn you watch because porn is just wanking material. If you really want to discover sexuality, think about real feelings and desires that you have in life. Observe which gender you check out more, fantasize about different people of both genders, you know, the usual stuff. If you realise girls are a complete turn off and don't do anything for you then yes, you could be gay and that's for you to find out.

Right now, sounds like your just growing up through puberty and are curious about everything.