what should I do

[ciberkiller21]

I really like this girl in my class , we started to get to know each other but then one day she kinda drifted away. so anyway at the moment it seems as if she really likes my best friend but he doesn´t feel the same way so we discussed what we were gonna do so she could start talking to me more and the only thing we came up with was him acting weird and not talking to her as much Please help I dont know what to do??????...

[Serenity]

Why don't you just keep talking to her? Initiate convo yourself :daisy: As someone said to me, if something's there, it's there. Course that guy ended up being a jerk, but nevertheless it's still quite true!

[mynameisjane]

i agree

[RaisingSand]

Initiating convo is a great idea. If you connect, you connect, and if you don't, you don't and you two probably aren't compatible. But hey, no harm in giving it a shot, eh? :D

[byee]

Your friend acting weird is dishonest and nasty, tell him not to do that! If he doesn;t like her 'that way' he should just come right out and say so. Him acting 'weird' doesn't increase your chances, anyway.

You can try to strike uop some chat with her, sure, but if you guys ahve drifted apart, it's a bit uphill for you. I like to put 'the pedal to the metal' in those situations, maybe telling her something extremely complimentary so she knows that eventhough you've drifted apart, you're now wanting to drift closer. Or maybe just tell her that!

[mynameisjane]

well its kinda awkward to just go out and say, "i dont like you that way". it only seems she likes him but you're not really sure. i would actually rather be avoided then have someone tell me that. it just seems harsher to me to be okay with being that honest to someone.

i dont think your friend should act wierd because if she ever started dating you, you'd know it would only be because she couldnt get him. and that would bother you forever. and she would of course see more of him if you got together since you hang around him. he cant act wierd forever. my advice is to just let him be himself and just do your best to get her attention. if she isnt interested then just accept that you're not right for eachother and it wasnt meant to be.