sexual Abuse

[brianabyington]

HELP ME PLEASE!! I have a question for everyone. My mom just told me a friend of hers who is almost 19 has been sexually abused since he was 15 by his mom. He just confessed this to her last night. My mom said he had sex with his mom basically the first yr and he didn't mind it he thought it was cool but after a year he thought it was wrong not sure why he liked it before. Mom told me his mom also like grabs his junk and squeezes so hard he passed out thursday cause of it and mom said it happened numerous times too before. Mom told him since he is old enough he should move out and not live there. By the way he is from Canada if that makes any difference, not sure how there rules are there. He wants to move down here cause he feels safe here at our house. I'm asking is that the right thing my mom told him to do? He just wants it to stop my mom said and not filing charges as he will be in the USA if he moves out and away from the abuse.

[Elvalight]

um...that mom should be in jail by now, since that is incest and unless obama made that legal too, she is a low, dirty, stuck up pedo pervert! *ehem* Protect him in any way possible, and keep him safe. This world is dark right now, and it seems you can't trust ANYONE these days.


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[brianabyington]

He's in Canada though not the united states. He's also 18 now so he can leave. I think my mom said in Canada you can leave when you are 16. My mom is not sure why he wouldn't leave before. My mom told him he was welcome to stay with us. He would be safe here. Mom said he didn't tell her til last night and he has to get a passport and everything to come down here.

[its.me.akshay]

Let it be... Tel em ta act dat he quite lykes it which givs em time to work out on the next step.... It wil take some days for the passport nd all those green card...etc.etc. To arrive so that he cud move in! Tell em ta stay at home... Bt away frm es mother for blunt reasons so dat hes there if passport verification comes home ta check... Tell em ta stay calm nd neva lose that thing...! Coz if hes true... Theres sumone above em whos willing ta help him lots! Any help... Am there too... Nly fact dat am half te globe away!

[brianabyington]

Mom says he said he seriously needs to leave. He is seriously making every effort to get out of there and avoiding the situation now is what my mom said. I hope he is okay til then.

[its.me.akshay]

hmmm.... And how do you know him....? Is he trustable...? You say he is a friend of your mom.... Family friend type or sumhow related to you guys....

[brianabyington]

It's my mom friend & no relation and yes he's trustable

[its.me.akshay]

It's my mom friend & no relation and yes he's trustable

then do this thing.... If he has completed his school.... Jus make a fake invitation that he has been granted admission to any of the famous universities out there.... It must have some facts and say he is to come alone.... Idz worth a try..... And dnt overdo it.... Id must be simple... Lyke a letter... It must be to his mom.... Not for him.... If ure fool proof then hed be out in some days without his mom's doubts and we culd plan the next latr....

[ayelove100]

yeah thats very good what ur mom dad because the boys mom is crazyyy for doing that..

[Xxrdgfinestmxxx]

I would say he should leave as soon as possible god forbid she gets prego

[NeuroTiger]

That's obviously unacceptable...