Best friends hooking up? Help me!!!

[Westc55998]

I think I'm gay and I am single but I really like this guy. Is it normal to check him out a lot? I also spent the night at his house and we sorta cuddled and I'm not sure if he wants to say anything about it. Should I talk to him about it, or should I just let it go? ( we've spent lots of time together and we even showered together ) PLEASE HELP!

[sdude]

Need to be careful, but try asking him when you guys are cuddling...admit if you are hard...ask if he is..go from there man..

[spoke]

i agree with sdude, next time you're together would be the time to talk about it, especially if you're cuddling. tell him you like being with him. i'm guessing he must like it if he cuddles with you.

[dontfiguremeout]

Well I think a lot of guys who are the same gender cuddle together. That's just a bromance, unless you guys really do mean serious business about cuddling. And if you think your truly gay and you want your friend to do stuff, I think you should wait till he gestures it. You know your ready, but if you gesture, then he gestures, then yeah go ahead!

[PinkFloyd]

Well dont say "remember that time when we did that thing" because you might come off as a creep. Just ask him if he wants to go over to your place.
hope i helped

- Rob

[virgcross]

Yea definatly don't pull it up while you guys are in public or doing stuff. Say something in private when you 2 r together like that.

[Diverperry]

Be careful and subtle dude cause I know a lot of straight guys that like cuddling. It's more of a bromance thing than a sexual attraction. Don't mistake signs of being good friends for thinking that he wants to go further

[airjordan97]

If its that type of cuddling I would keep it in the bedroom/house. I mean I kinda bromance every now and then but we aren't gay so we didn't take it that far but if you guys are and wanna take it farther. Be my guest. Stay safe and keep it in the privacy of a bedroom. Good luck.

[Sean4U]

I totally agree with the guys so far, just take it slowly and see where it goes .... you obviously are interested and he may be too, but just let things progress normally, don't force it

[zerosix22]

Maybe you just want to take your time before asking him,if you cuddle with him again it will be a good time to ask these things and be sure that you two talk in private.just dont creep the guy out. :)

[Terrell613091]

Talk about it

[hollisterboi95]

I am straight and cuddle with my friends a lot when they stay the night or something
It's normal. But next time you are together talk about it and be calm and don't creep him out. But who knows he might feel the same way!

[Lost in the Echo]

Well if you do like him that way, then yes it is normal to do those things with him.

Also, if you really do want to be with him, then yes, you should tell him the way you truly feel about him.

I wish you the best of luck :)