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Das1994
November 11th, 2012, 04:02 AM
So I get kind of excited when I see hot guy walking by...but I also get excited when a hot girl is walking by...I've only been in relationships with girls and loved it, but wonder how it would be with a guy...what does this mean?

Craig1995
November 11th, 2012, 04:04 AM
Sounds like your curious, most people experience curiosity as they grow up. So it's normal :)

Das1994
November 11th, 2012, 04:07 AM
Thanks!

Lost in the Echo
November 11th, 2012, 04:40 AM
Yeah, you're just curious due to all your hormones raging during puberty, it's normal.

bbh6496
November 12th, 2012, 10:34 AM
Probably curious, no big deal :)

Stig
November 12th, 2012, 01:40 PM
Your just curious. It's completely normal. It happens to me too. I get horny when I see a pretty girl and I get horny when I see a cute/hot boy.

justinglives
November 12th, 2012, 01:46 PM
Normal.
Most of us, if we can be honest with ourselves, relate to others of BOTH sexes on some (or multi) level.
Physical, emotional, or other.

On the physical side....."why limit the possibilities to just half the population....????"

Giles
November 12th, 2012, 04:16 PM
If you feel that way and can admit it, to yourself, then it sounds as though you're bisexual. However, as you're going through puberty your hormones can change the way you feel and the way you think, so you might find over time that you're actually straight/gay or when your hormones calm down you might feel the same way. At this stage it can be difficult for some people to know what they identify as, if anything, give it time and it should become more clear.

Hassan1996
November 12th, 2012, 04:28 PM
Just normal and maybe you are bi

DerBear
November 12th, 2012, 04:36 PM
I think you might get more relevant answers here

Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality

Tinker
November 12th, 2012, 09:01 PM
Your curious its normal and part of life

TigerBoy
November 13th, 2012, 09:47 AM
If you feel that way and can admit it, to yourself, then it sounds as though you're bisexual. However, as you're going through puberty your hormones can change the way you feel and the way you think, so you might find over time that you're actually straight/gay or when your hormones calm down you might feel the same way. At this stage it can be difficult for some people to know what they identify as, if anything, give it time and it should become more clear.

Yep, there are an awful lot of posters here who are understandably worried about choosing a label because of all the crap society wants to attach to it. Ironically you are just choosing another label ("curious") that is so vague it doesn't really help anyway.

Puberty and hormones increase sex drive and lower inhibitions BUT they do not affect your sexual orientation, which has been scientifically shown to be fixed before birth. As further proof that sexual identity isn't simply a matter of puberty making you feel stuff, studies (http://homepage.univie.ac.at/Michael.Berger/lit/McClintock.pdf)show sexual identity can frequently be identified at an average age of 10 and before any sexual development associated with puberty.

All guys are going to want to know what their orientation is so all us start out as 'curious'. Don't confuse being intellectually curious about your orientation with genuine feelings of same-sex attraction. A lot of what gets said about this topic is bro-science or religious wishful-thinking that suggests every guy who has same-sex attraction can expect it to go away. This clearly isn't true. What is more accurate is to say that most guys are straight, and a lot of straight guys are open minded enough to think about this and even experiment if they are horny enough but have no actual same-sex attraction and it turns out they don't like it.

It doesn't matter what society says you should like: if you let it matter then it will just screw you up. What you feel is a vital part of what makes you 'you'. Enjoy what you enjoy, and don't listen to haters.

Benji1
November 17th, 2012, 05:23 PM
Sound like your just bi-curious mate like me... Wanna chat about it?