joshual3
November 11th, 2012, 02:58 AM
I normally wouldn't post such personal things on the internet, but I'm at a lose here. I just don't know what to do...
My family is fighting ALL the time. It just never ends. It's just one fight after another and it's really getting to me. The thing is, I'm not involved in any of it. I'm on the outside looking in and in a sense, I feel like that can be worse. Everybody around me is fighting constantly and I feel like there isn't a damn thing I can do about any of it. It hasn't always been this way, though. It's only been recent. Maybe the past 2-3 years.
My parents have fought as long as I could remember. To be honest, I don't understand why they are still together. Most of the time it seems like they barely even like each other. My mom is overly sensitive and takes things the wrong way... and my dad drinks a lot. Both mixed together just doesn't go over very well. They never physically hurt each other (thank the lord), but the fighting can get pretty bad sometimes. It's just a lot of yelling and pretty much tearing each other down.
My mom fights with my big brother and my big sister a lot too. Both of them are grown and have been for years. My older sister is reaching 30 next year and my brother will in a few years. All the fighting between my mom and them is based purely on their life choices. My mom feels she should pretty much control everything they do, which doesn't go over with either one of them. Granted both my brother and sister don't make good choices, but still, my mom can't grasp the concept that they are grown and can make their own choices. All she is doing is making things worse for them by butting into their lives and pretty much trying to take over. Because of that, neither my brother or sister has a good relationship with her. It's just constant fighting with them. And who gets all the flack for it? Me. Every time one of them does something wrong, she starts complaining to me and most of time I end getting yelled at for the bad decisions they make. It's so frustrating.
And mom always fights with my younger sister too. My younger sister just has a huge, huge attitude and is quite disrespectful most of the time. So the fighting there makes sense, but it's still ridiculous.
My dad occasionally fights with people, but most of the time he just fights with my mom. It's practically every day that they fight.
There is seriously A LOT more to what I am saying and if I went into specifics then it would definitely seem worse and might make more sense... But I don't feel comfortable enough giving out specifics in all the situations.
I just don't know how much more of this fighting I can take. It's constant. It never, ever stops and I can't deal with it. I'm tired of being yelled and bitched at for crap I don't do and I'm tired of being around people who are so unhappy and so angry. It's putting me in an unhappy and angry mood most of the time.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm never in a good mood anymore because of all of this. All the fighting is seriously exhausting and definitely emotionally draining. I don't know how much more I can take of everybody fighting!
My family is fighting ALL the time. It just never ends. It's just one fight after another and it's really getting to me. The thing is, I'm not involved in any of it. I'm on the outside looking in and in a sense, I feel like that can be worse. Everybody around me is fighting constantly and I feel like there isn't a damn thing I can do about any of it. It hasn't always been this way, though. It's only been recent. Maybe the past 2-3 years.
My parents have fought as long as I could remember. To be honest, I don't understand why they are still together. Most of the time it seems like they barely even like each other. My mom is overly sensitive and takes things the wrong way... and my dad drinks a lot. Both mixed together just doesn't go over very well. They never physically hurt each other (thank the lord), but the fighting can get pretty bad sometimes. It's just a lot of yelling and pretty much tearing each other down.
My mom fights with my big brother and my big sister a lot too. Both of them are grown and have been for years. My older sister is reaching 30 next year and my brother will in a few years. All the fighting between my mom and them is based purely on their life choices. My mom feels she should pretty much control everything they do, which doesn't go over with either one of them. Granted both my brother and sister don't make good choices, but still, my mom can't grasp the concept that they are grown and can make their own choices. All she is doing is making things worse for them by butting into their lives and pretty much trying to take over. Because of that, neither my brother or sister has a good relationship with her. It's just constant fighting with them. And who gets all the flack for it? Me. Every time one of them does something wrong, she starts complaining to me and most of time I end getting yelled at for the bad decisions they make. It's so frustrating.
And mom always fights with my younger sister too. My younger sister just has a huge, huge attitude and is quite disrespectful most of the time. So the fighting there makes sense, but it's still ridiculous.
My dad occasionally fights with people, but most of the time he just fights with my mom. It's practically every day that they fight.
There is seriously A LOT more to what I am saying and if I went into specifics then it would definitely seem worse and might make more sense... But I don't feel comfortable enough giving out specifics in all the situations.
I just don't know how much more of this fighting I can take. It's constant. It never, ever stops and I can't deal with it. I'm tired of being yelled and bitched at for crap I don't do and I'm tired of being around people who are so unhappy and so angry. It's putting me in an unhappy and angry mood most of the time.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm never in a good mood anymore because of all of this. All the fighting is seriously exhausting and definitely emotionally draining. I don't know how much more I can take of everybody fighting!