Am I a girls "dream" guy or bi?

[Cicero]

So I know there's a lot of girls out there who want a guy who's not interested in just having sex with them. And that's how I feel, when I think of having sex with a girl. I don't know how I feel, it doesn't gross me out anymore but im definitely on no hurry. I am a "heterotomantic homosexual". If I were gay, would imagining having sex with a woman gross me out? Also, when I think about doing that, I also think "what if I cannot perform?" what if I do not get excited?". So what I get from other normal guys, is that girls to them are a way to have sex, I feel like other guys think of them as living sex dolls. I do not feel like that, but I do think ghat with guys. But wen I imagine sex with a woman, I don't know what to think, I don't really even think my mind just kinda blurs.

[ReginaGeorge]

If you were gay you might see having sex with women gross, it's different for everyone. Some gay people just have emotional attraction to the same-sex and they, for lack of better word, just 'deal with' the sex later. Sorry, I know that's probably not what you want to hear. If the thought of having sex with a woman doesn't excite you, not even the slightest bit, but having sex with men does, then that probably indicates that you're gay or at least bi with a preference for guys.

As for the feelings, I was in the same situations as you, just in reverse because I'm female. It took me quite a few months to actually open up to the thought of having feelings for a girl because I never did before, and it happened, I actually got genuine feelings for a girl. So, maybe all you need to do it try and open yourself to it. I know some people won't ever have feelings for the same-sex even with sexual attraction, but you don't know until you try. You could be a bi-romantic, possibly pan-romanitc, homosexual, which would probably work out better for you.

I don't think your Mum has anything to do it with it personally, because you (hopefully) don't see her in a sexual way.

[Craig1995]

If you were gay you might see having sex with women gross, it's different for everyone. Some gay people just have emotional attraction to the same-sex and they, for lack of better word, just 'deal with' the sex later. Sorry, I know that's probably not what you want to hear. If the thought of having sex with a woman doesn't excite you, not even the slightest bit, but having sex with men does, then that probably indicates that you're gay or at least bi with a preference for guys.

As for the feelings, I was in the same situations as you, just in reverse because I'm female. It took me quite a few months to actually open up to the thought of having feelings for a girl because I never did before, and it happened, I actually got genuine feelings for a girl. So, maybe all you need to do it try and open yourself to it. I know some people won't ever have feelings for the same-sex even with sexual attraction, but you don't know until you try. You could be a bi-romantic, possibly pan-romanitc, homosexual, which would probably work out better for you.

I don't think your Mum has anything to do it with it personally, because you (hopefully) don't see her in a sexual way.

This is the perfect answer <3

[Cicero]

If you were gay you might see having sex with women gross, it's different for everyone. Some gay people just have emotional attraction to the same-sex and they, for lack of better word, just 'deal with' the sex later. Sorry, I know that's probably not what you want to hear. If the thought of having sex with a woman doesn't excite you, not even the slightest bit, but having sex with men does, then that probably indicates that you're gay or at least bi with a preference for guys.

As for the feelings, I was in the same situations as you, just in reverse because I'm female. It took me quite a few months to actually open up to the thought of having feelings for a girl because I never did before, and it happened, I actually got genuine feelings for a girl. So, maybe all you need to do it try and open yourself to it. I know some people won't ever have feelings for the same-sex even with sexual attraction, but you don't know until you try. You could be a bi-romantic, possibly pan-romanitc, homosexual, which would probably work out better for you.

I don't think your Mum has anything to do it with it personally, because you (hopefully) don't see her in a sexual way.

no i dont i was jw cause she's always been a jerk to me.

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