Eric57
November 10th, 2012, 06:53 PM
Here's the deal, I went out with this guy on 3 dates. We liked each other, but ultimately we decided to not continue for multiple reasons. We didn't go out all that much and things ended on fine terms. After deciding to not go out anymore, we would have the occasional interaction on Facebook. He comments on some of my things sometimes and we like most of what each other does on there. So we are on fine terms and are very friendly with each other.
Maybe 4 or 5 nights ago I was in an awful mood. Frustrated and upset. It was kind of late and I knew my friends wouldn't be up. I really just wanted to talk to somebody about it and for some reason I ended up calling him. He didn't answer, but later that night he texted me back and said he would call me in a few hours. He never called back. The next day he texted me and said sorry that he didn't call me back and asked if we could talk tonight. I said that we could. Later that night he called me. I answered, but I told him that I couldn't talk because I was helping my sister study for a test, which was the truth. He said that was okay and that I could just call him tomorrow night. So the next night I called him and he didn't answer.
At this point, I'm not longer upset or in a mood. But now I kind of want to talk to him. Just to catch up and see how he is doing and all. But I don't know if I should call him again. I still have feelings for him and I want to talk to him because of that. But it's not like I'm actually going to tell him that or anything. I kind of just want to catch up and everything. But again, I don't know if I should call again.... It's been 2 days now and he hasn't called me or texted me. So that kind of makes me think he doesn't want to talk to me, but at the same time I feel like I'm overreacting.
I feel kind of weird about this for some reason. I guess I just don't want to call again and have him not answer. I just don't want to come off as pushy or stalkerish or something like that. You know what I mean?
What do you guys think? Should I call him again? I do want to make it clear that I'm not calling him because I want to try to get with him again. Not my intentions. I just want to catch up and see how he is doing.
Maybe 4 or 5 nights ago I was in an awful mood. Frustrated and upset. It was kind of late and I knew my friends wouldn't be up. I really just wanted to talk to somebody about it and for some reason I ended up calling him. He didn't answer, but later that night he texted me back and said he would call me in a few hours. He never called back. The next day he texted me and said sorry that he didn't call me back and asked if we could talk tonight. I said that we could. Later that night he called me. I answered, but I told him that I couldn't talk because I was helping my sister study for a test, which was the truth. He said that was okay and that I could just call him tomorrow night. So the next night I called him and he didn't answer.
At this point, I'm not longer upset or in a mood. But now I kind of want to talk to him. Just to catch up and see how he is doing and all. But I don't know if I should call him again. I still have feelings for him and I want to talk to him because of that. But it's not like I'm actually going to tell him that or anything. I kind of just want to catch up and everything. But again, I don't know if I should call again.... It's been 2 days now and he hasn't called me or texted me. So that kind of makes me think he doesn't want to talk to me, but at the same time I feel like I'm overreacting.
I feel kind of weird about this for some reason. I guess I just don't want to call again and have him not answer. I just don't want to come off as pushy or stalkerish or something like that. You know what I mean?
What do you guys think? Should I call him again? I do want to make it clear that I'm not calling him because I want to try to get with him again. Not my intentions. I just want to catch up and see how he is doing.