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Atonement
September 26th, 2007, 09:55 PM
:confused:Okay, I really want an opinion...

Problem solved, thanks

Hauptmann Kauffman
September 26th, 2007, 09:56 PM
You sound confused to me. You cant be gay or bi if you are not emotionally attracted to men.

Atonement
September 26th, 2007, 09:58 PM
I feel really close to men, not in a relationship state, just a strong friendship. I am really sexually attracted to men, but I am truely commited to women, dating and everything, and sex seems almost repulsive if I don't love that woman. So... whoa... there's a confusing statement...

Hauptmann Kauffman
September 26th, 2007, 10:00 PM
Not confusing. Once again, I think you are just curious, maybe close to bi, but not quite there.

Atonement
September 26th, 2007, 10:04 PM
ugh, this sucks, confusion, I mean I feel straight emotionally, but what people say makes me feel gay being sexually attracted to men. and because of that I find it hard to believe I am staight. Which I think if I give it time, my curiousity would mellow out and my emotional atraction for women might turn seuxal too, maybe I just need to be exposed to women. I am rather shy towards women.

Mirataku
September 30th, 2007, 04:05 PM
well your physically attracted to guys but like girls, your a kinsey 4

RaisingSand
September 30th, 2007, 06:40 PM
You could be more bi-curious than bi/gay ... that and at your age, hormones play a MAJOR factor in influencing your sexual feelings and thoughts. Give yourself a few more years or so to sort out your feelings before labelling yourself as bisexual, gay, straight.
As for now, there is nothing wrong with having those feelings, nor is there anything wrong with looking at or masturbating to gay porn, though I would advise discretion if you're going to continue with that. :)

byee
September 30th, 2007, 09:54 PM
Nah, you're not gay, bi, curious, or any of the above. You're just normal. Being interested in people is a new thing, it takes some time to figure out what it all means. Just stay with it, don't judge yourself too harshly, and you'll be fine.

area51
October 1st, 2007, 11:48 AM
Is it possible for such a thing to happen to an 18 year old guy?