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[Rdsxbaseballfan]

Okay, well this boy in my class came out and told me and a few friends that he was Bi. We would talk in class before he told and and we still talk but something seems different about him, he seems to be sitting and standing near me more often than he did before he said anything. He's in drama and he had a play yesterday, I was talking to him on my phone and i told him that 2 of my friends (they 2 of the 3 he told) may want to go. He then quickly asked me to come.

Is he just trying to be friends and wants to get to know me or is it something more than that?

[nice]

He may be just trying to be friendly and get to know you better. But then again he could also be flirting this is one of those things where it could go either way.

Can I ask what you are gay, straight, bi etc.

[Voodoo]

In my eyes, he's being friendly. But I'm not you, he could be trying to be a little more than friendly, but you've gotta remember that he just came out.. It's awkward for both sides (I bet). It seems that you're taking his sexuality differently.

It could be both, but my guess he's just being friendly.

[darkie]

I also agree that he's being friendly. I think that that kind of behavior comes from the fact that he did come out already. You know about the truth about him already, (which I would assume that you didn't have violent reactions) and he doesn't have to worry/hide that fact from you, and you accept that fact about him. Perhaps he sees this as a sort of go-signal for you guys to become better friends.

However, if you find any of these situations rather annoying, awkward or uncomfortable, don't hesitate to tell him about it in a nice way. :)

[Craig1995]

It's a bit of a coincidence that you notice this when you find out he is bi. I think it's probably just ur imagination, it sounds like he's just being nice. Does the fact that he is bi make you feel awkward? Perhaps that is part of the problem.

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

I'm straight, but It doesn't make me feel awkward at all, I don't mind at all that he is bi, it could also be that I invited him to join a few friends at the movies, maybe he thinks I'm interested but I don't know

[Lost in the Echo]

Well since you are one of the guys he came out to, and now he's being really nice and friendly to you, I think that shows that he feels really comfortable with you and would like to hang out with you and be your friend.

[nice]

I'm straight, but It doesn't make me feel awkward at all, I don't mind at all that he is bi, it could also be that I invited him to join a few friends at the movies, maybe he thinks I'm interested but I don't know

Oh then I think he is just being friendly sine he came out to you and you accepted him. If you want to see if be likes you I'd talk to him about someone you like and just see how he reacts.

[Athlete15]

Try to just ignore thinking that he likes you unless as to not put a strain on the relationship that you two share as well as possibly your other friends. If it ever comes to a head and your friend does try to be something with you, just let him down easy and just keep it between the two of you.