View Full Version : Need Some Help Here Please!
jon123456
September 26th, 2007, 03:51 PM
last weekend, my younger cousin and other family slepped over over. because there was nomore room left to sleep, me and my cousin slepped in my bed together. before we fell asleep, we were joking around and suddenly, he reached over and put his hands in my boxers and started to feel my penis and play with it. i made him stop and he did, but after alittle while later, he did it again. he says he wants to see it and touch it. i think he is curious and stuff, but touching my penis isnt appropriate. can u guys help?
Serenity
September 26th, 2007, 04:41 PM
You have to sit him down face to face and tell him that that is definitely NOT something he can do and that it WILL NOT happen again. It's not a suggestion, not an option, that's just the way it is. Sexual experimentation between family members is never something that should be tried and you have to make your cousin understand that he has to resist whatever urges he feels, no matter what.
RaisingSand
September 26th, 2007, 05:54 PM
I agree with Valerie, that is definitely NOT okay, and I suggest you do the ^above suggested, and if that doesn't work, then you really need to let someone know, such as a trusted adult/parent.
Hauptmann Kauffman
September 26th, 2007, 06:56 PM
Ia gree with everyone. Its not ok, and you should make that very clear to him. If he doesnt stop, bring it up with your parents.
byee
September 26th, 2007, 08:00 PM
Yup, it's not okay to do this, you're right to feel uncomfortable. You didn't mention ages, though. I'm assuming he's younger than you.
I think it's his curiosity that causing him to do this, you might want to first set a limit with him, tell him it's not ok to touch your penis, and then ask him what's on his mind, what he's curious about, and that you'd be happy to address his questions with words, and you'd like him to ask his questions without using his hands.
Bankai15
September 27th, 2007, 04:29 PM
INCEST IS NOT COOL!!!
He seems a little open about it to "just be curious" in my view.
Trickster
September 27th, 2007, 06:59 PM
it probaly curisoty but you should tell him, no mean no thats it. If you get into something you could wake up and not remeber what you did last night and that NOT GOOD. Just say im not interested.
Malcolm Tucker
September 28th, 2007, 01:50 PM
No way is this right, he should ask you first anyway. Talk to him and tell him this cannot happen again.
Tatsuya
September 29th, 2007, 12:55 AM
What age is he?.....well ask why he wants to know.....then ask him to stop if not, tell someone that you trust....
notsure101
October 7th, 2007, 01:12 AM
u ahve to tell him to stop and if he doesnt u just go some where else and how old was he
MysteryMan
October 18th, 2007, 11:47 AM
yes im also intrested on how old he was because then you could tell what he was aiming for just curiosity or something else...:D
Maverick
October 18th, 2007, 11:49 AM
yes im also intrested on how old he was because then you could tell what he was aiming for just curiosity or something else...:D
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