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legolas911
September 26th, 2007, 12:07 PM
i've twice sucked my friends penis and he has sucked mine.( i'm not gay just curious) now he wants to have anal sex with me , do you think its ok??
Crazysam
September 26th, 2007, 12:10 PM
if your under 16 then no its not alright but if your are no one here is gonna stop you...
Maverick
September 26th, 2007, 12:16 PM
No it is not okay to be having casual sex with your friends. Learn to control your hormones and urges and don't give in. Just because you may have the desire doesn't mean you should act on it. Anal sex is very risky and can cause some damage that may lead you to go to the hospital so you'd definitely have to explain what happened to your parents and I doubt you'd be okay for that.
Also you are definitely not mature enough to have sex because you're coming here on a teen forum to ask us who don't even know you. Wait until you're much older before doing any kind of sexual activity and until you become more educated.
jon123456
September 26th, 2007, 02:32 PM
if u sucked ur friend's dick twice already, and u need to ask others if it is ok to have anal with him, i'm pretty sure ur gay. that's alittle bit far past "curiosity"
RaisingSand
September 26th, 2007, 05:58 PM
No it is not okay to be having casual sex with your friends. Learn to control your hormones and urges and don't give in. Just because you may have the desire doesn't mean you should act on it. Anal sex is very risky and can cause some damage that may lead you to go to the hospital so you'd definitely have to explain what happened to your parents and I doubt you'd be okay for that.
Also you are definitely not mature enough to have sex because you're coming here on a teen forum to ask us who don't even know you. Wait until you're much older before doing any kind of sexual activity and until you become more educated.
^What I was about to say, I agree 200%.
byee
September 26th, 2007, 08:40 PM
If you do something twice, it can no longer really be considered 'experimentation'. The experiment is over, the curiosity is satisfied. You're doing it because you enjoy it.
It's not surprising that if you enjoy oral sex with a guy that you'd be 'curious' abut anal sex. But, aside from what everyone else has said, you might consider what doing this tends to suggest, and if that's something that's comfortable for you, if you see yourself that way.
Sometimes, those urges can be pretty strong, but it's always a good idea to think about what it is your urging to do, and decide if it's really worth it to you.
Atonement
September 26th, 2007, 09:22 PM
Okay, the sucking eachothers dick could be curiosity, but if he wants to have anal sex, I would either suspect that he is gay, or he thinks he'd be doing you a favor. I suggest that you should politely reject it, and be very cool about it. Doing things like this can harm a relation beyond repair, I know, trust me. It has ruined a relationship of mine.
Hauptmann Kauffman
September 26th, 2007, 09:23 PM
I agree with Sam here.(and Plop)
Dolphus Raymond
September 26th, 2007, 10:37 PM
On more practical levels, what if your friend falls in love? What if he tells someone else? You may not want to play with fire.
Aηdy
September 27th, 2007, 02:39 PM
No it is not okay to be having casual sex with your friends. Learn to control your hormones and urges and don't give in. Just because you may have the desire doesn't mean you should act on it. Anal sex is very risky and can cause some damage that may lead you to go to the hospital so you'd definitely have to explain what happened to your parents and I doubt you'd be okay for that.
Also you are definitely not mature enough to have sex because you're coming here on a teen forum to ask us who don't even know you. Wait until you're much older before doing any kind of sexual activity and until you become more educated.
Awesome post, I'd give rep but it still wont let me :P Although as you said... it's the thought that counts.. I thought about it :D
Anyway back on topic... In addition to what Ant said... even giving blowjobs and especially anal sex, unprotected is very risky. And also liek Ant said, you don't seem mature anough at all for this kind of thing.
Trickster
September 27th, 2007, 07:09 PM
dont do it it just urges getting to you. What happens if you get HIV positive? Just wait it out and wait for 18 if you lose your virginity now you may regret it and if it witha friend. With a friend it could ruin things so it not recomenned. You may still be curious but theres more chance youre not. Just wait it out cuz anal sex is 100% more dangerous then oral.
megaman
July 28th, 2009, 10:01 PM
hey i wish i could suck my friends i was gunna 2nite but ide enjoy it u r probably just curious like me its completley normal just wear a jonny
JimSauce
July 28th, 2009, 11:51 PM
hey i wish i could suck my friends i was gunna 2nite but ide enjoy it u r probably just curious like me its completley normal just wear a jonny
A jonny? Is that the new name for condoms?
QuickQuart
July 29th, 2009, 12:39 AM
if u sucked ur friend's dick twice already, and u need to ask others if it is ok to have anal with him, i'm pretty sure ur gay. that's alittle bit far past "curiosity"
This definately is not accurate. Just because he is in this position does not make him gay.
However, I agree that you shouldnt do it. It's far too dangerous for someone your age.
YourFriend
July 29th, 2009, 06:01 AM
No it isn't okay to have anal sex with your friend, that's already in the boyfriends area. Oral is usually only for fun, but anal is stepping over the line if you don't have a romantical relationship with him. Wont even bother to mention the law here.
Edit: Oh shit i just realized this is 2 years old. :( Mods please lock this.
Requin
July 29th, 2009, 09:51 AM
Old thread. Please don't bump. Thanks. :locked:
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