What to do?

[KidNova]

Okay, so I'm going to make this simple.

I have been with this girl for about a month now, and everything was going fine now, but something happened. I don't feel the same that I do now. Every time I'm with her, I just don't feel like how I felt when I first got with her. Sometimes I find my self looking and having thoughts of other girls, sometimes I also find myself spending less time with her. Don't get me wrong, I'm NOT a bad boyfriend, heck my shortest relationship was 5 months, but I don't want to seem like an asshole. So what do I do? Do I still stay in the relationship even though it doesn't feel right anymore, or do I let her go easy and just be friends?

[Breakeven]

i think if you dont feel the same anymore you should tell her and let her go! just be honest and do what feels right!

[Athlete15]

Well first of all give it time. You don't want to end things tomorrow then realize in a week or two you made a huge mistake losing a girl that you really liked. Maybe the time will rekindle the flame, or maybe it will prove what you already believe that you no longer feel the same about your girlfriend.

In this case, the only right thing to do is to let her go, give her time, then try to be friends again when she is ready. It might feel like you are hurting her, but in reality its a lot worse to string her on for weeks/months not feeling strongly about her and letting her fall even more and more in love with you, and then cutting it off then.

So if you give it a week, really decide you are not right together and you no longer want to be with her, the only right thing to do is let her know how you feel before it gets too serious.