Are They Catching On?

[PinkFloyd]

So me and my girlfriend Mariah have been together for almost 2 years. I gover to her place for "sleepovers" all the time. Her parents never check on us so we have sex right above where they sit in the living room but in her room in the second level. we are starting to think that theyre catching on. How can I steer them away from that conclusion?

[Castle of Glass]

first, what would her parents do, if they found out the two of you were having sex?

[PinkFloyd]

first, what would her parents do, if they found out the two of you were having sex?

at the very worst... probably try to get me in trouble with the law AND never get to see her as even a friend again.

[Castle of Glass]

well, the thing about the trouble with law, is, that there is no way they could do that, if you have your Gf's consent. with it it is all right. and if parents do the second thing, it is jsut because they are over protective.

but imho i think you and your GF should sit down with her parents during dinner or what ever, and come out clean. which is better, them catching the 2 of you in the act or just telling them straight up.

[PinkFloyd]

well, the thing about the trouble with law, is, that there is no way they could do that, if you have your Gf's consent. with it it is all right. and if parents do the second thing, it is jsut because they are over protective.

but imho i think you and your GF should sit down with her parents during dinner or what ever, and come out clean. which is better, them catching the 2 of you in the act or just telling them straight up.

Yeah. we have been togeter for like 22 months... but still thats a little extreme.

[Castle of Glass]

so the two of you have been together for about 2 years, so i am surprised if they didn't know about it.

[Mortal Coil]

They aren't stupid, they probably already know. If you're worried about getting caught, find a different spot... Don't bring it up and act neutral if they do.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well you probably won't like this idea, but I think the best thing to do is not have sex for a while, because I find that if you have a guilty conscience, the people around you can sense that, so if you don't have sex, then you will have a clear conscience, therefore they won't suspect anything.
So not having sex for a while is probably the best thing to do in this situation, unless you 2 are ALONE in the house when you do it.

[FreeFall]

Stop having sex for awhile. If they ever decide to "check" on you guys, you'll be asleep and not humping each other. Or stop being so noisy.
Frankly the idea of Mommy and Daddy being able to be within ear shot during sex, major turn off for me.

[PinkFloyd]

They aren't stupid, they probably already know. If you're worried about getting caught, find a different spot... Don't bring it up and act neutral if they do.

Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. thanks.

[Wesley1369]

have sex somewhere else

[Shining Star]

have sex somewhere else

Totally agree with Wes' answer....switch up where you have sex

[Dabigdtc]

Totally agree with Wes' answer....switch up where you have sex

im with these guys :yes:

[zerosix22]

Just lay low a little just to make them a little less suspicious and make her parents trust you.if you cant lay low,you might just have to get a room!lol jk youre too young to get a room. Just change location :)

[Mirage]

im with these guys :yes:

As am I. Do it somewhere else, maybe go in a different room or have her sleep over at your house?

[dingo006]

Yeah switch up where you do it. Also, have her parents catch you not having sex a few times at night. like get loud watching a movie or laughing about a story loudly. So they think maybe they overreacted with the suspicion.

[PinkFloyd]

I did make a thread about this already but me and her actually announced to both of our parents that we have been having sex for a while and that we will in the future. They said that theyre fine with it as long as were safe. What im trying to say is that this thread is as good as locked. :)

[Burn007]

Those parets....I want those parents :P

Btw now thats its over...U could just stop for awhile...And they wouldnt suspect anymore

[CharlieFinley]

I'm sure they already knew. Two years dating and having sleepovers where they conspicuously don't check on you?

[Stronk Serb]

Those parets....I want those parents :P

Btw now thats its over...U could just stop for awhile...And they wouldnt suspect anymore
I want those parents also, and a gf that would not view me as a freak (just because I am no swagger).

[GoldenSnitch]

im with these guys :yes:

Same here!