View Full Version : i think i might be bi, how should i tell my best friend?
princess09
November 8th, 2012, 01:37 PM
rumours were spread about me being a lesbian around the past 3 years and now that i think im bi im too scared to come out to everyone because when the rumours started i denied it because i was straight,im not deffinate but what should i do because i really want to tell my best friend so i can talk about it instead of keeping it locked up
what should i do?:what::confused:
Voodoo
November 9th, 2012, 02:47 AM
Well, to be honest, who cares about your preference? Gay, lesbian, bi-sexual etc, you're still the same person you were before you came out. If you want to tell your best friend then tell her. Best friends are there for support and like you for whom you are, not your sexuality. I'd ask her to keep it a secret between you two. But that is just me.
Do what you think is right to do, just remember if she's truly your best friend she will keep it a secret if you ask her too and or still be your friend, if she isn't afterwords then you know she wasn't really a friend.
princess09
November 11th, 2012, 02:00 PM
Thanks
Elvalight
November 11th, 2012, 02:09 PM
It's most likely your mind making you think that, since all girls have "girl crushes" at some piont. I've had em', and most all married women admit to likeing a few. You see, your mind( love to say that word) starts to agree with it if there are a bunch of people calling you bisexual. You can only be that if you REALLY are, and if you didn't know ealier and found out by yourself, it's most likely peer presure and people who call you what you don't believe you are need to shut up and let you do what you live YOUR life and do what YOU know you are sure of.
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