Friendzoned

[the_man_jake]

OK so i asked out the girl i like a couple of days and she said 'Yes' then today she said 'about that date.... I do not want to go on it because i do not want to risk our friendship.' (We have been friends since 4th grade, we are in 9th now) Is there any way of becoming un-friendzoned?

PLEASE I am in need of help. I really like her and being friendzoned for 5 years doesnt help... please
I'd love a females voice on the matter, any is appriciated

[justinglives]

Nope.
Once uve been TOLD ure friendzoned, ther is NO escape. Don't even bother to try

[the_man_jake]

I feel that that is the case.... But i know that there is a way. There has to be. I'd love to hear a female's opinion on the matter, hopefully they would say otherwise.

[Athlete15]

The friend zone is a dark cold place, but far from a lonely one. Everyone has been friend zoned whether they know it or not, and it sucks.

While there are always exceptions, its a pretty tough place to come back from. If you break off the friendship, odds are she will get mad at you for tossing the friendship and not want to date you. My best advice is to just enjoy the friendship and down the road it will become more and more obvious if you guys are meant to have something more than that.

[the_man_jake]

Her friends have told me that they think that it's obivious that we should be together though, i am not sure if they had said anything to her though.

[jacksonthelan]

dont stress man thats the best thing you can do, if she wants to be friends be friends and see where that takes you, ive been in and out of the friendzone many times and i have dated a girl that said she "friendzoned" me and we ended up dating for 7 months and we broke up because she moved schools, so give it time thats all you can do

[Mortal Coil]

Wow, okay. You have been "frienzoned." Guess what? She has a right to say no. You are not entitled to her, and as much as it hurts to love someone and not have your feelings be reciprocated, there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. Sorry.

[Emerald Dream]

If you have been friends with someone for years and they don't want to take a chance, then it's probably not worth it to take it any further. It sounds like the risk of losing a friendship is a lot heavier than the possibility of reward.

[PinkFloyd]

Anything can happen. and if anything does happen, it can happen very fast. Next time you two are alone you need do slowly lean on her on the couch. Do this slowly. If she says something like"What are you doing?" You just say "Oh, sorry im just a little tierd." If she goes with it, anthing can happen. Let me tell you that I was friend zoned like you for a good 8 years. When I pulled this off i got to third base within 5 minutes. (we are still together as bf/gfs and going on 2 years as a couple.

best of luck
- Rob

[RCT109]

sometimes the friendzone is where you are ment to be for that person