new member needs advice

[PrLatino93]

ive been readin a few posts n every1 here masturbates. im 14 n never masturbated. my friends dont talk bout stuff like a lot but showed me porn n keep telling me to do it bc it great. my religion says it rong, but i want to no how it feels. wut do u guys think

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Well, what religion are you a member of?

[Serenity]

I, like most people here, think it's perfectly normal and healthy and that if you want to do it you should. :daisy:

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Well yeah, i agree with you, but if we know what religious denomination he is a member of, we can help him get around it without feeling guilty.

[NPsweetass]

yea theres no reason not to. alot of religions say that you shouldnt just to make you feel bad about something that feels good. but what else is new right? imo masterbation is the only thing that keeps me insane sometimes LOL and im a girl ive always heard its harder for guys to not do it

[Θάνατος]

ive been readin a few posts n every1 here masturbates. im 14 n never masturbated. my friends dont talk bout stuff like a lot but showed me porn n keep telling me to do it bc it great. my religion says it rong, but i want to no how it feels. wut do u guys think

Hey it is up to you wether to masterbate or not. If you are looking for techniques then you should do a search on the internet. There are sites out there that can give you some useful information.


The only way you are going to know how it feels is try it for your self. Experiment with techniques to find one that works for you and give you the most pleasure.

[Pioneer92]

I, like most people here, think it's perfectly normal and healthy and that if you want to do it you should. :daisy:

im of this opinion too... my religion says its bad but my parents say its ok as long as i do it in private

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

SO I guess we have a censensus here? Its good for you, fun, and it shouldnt be a problem when you get into heaven:D

[Gumleaf]

do whatever feels right to you. i am a christian and i masturbate. so what.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

do whatever feels right to you. i am a christian and i masturbate. so what.

Me too. :D

[Crazysam]

its not wrong, its not illegal and its not hurting anyone so its perfectly ok and normal to do it allot people do (i do for one) and i dont think you should feel presured to do it because evryone else seems to.

Only do it if you want to!

[Vermillion]

Dude, if your religion is telling you that masturbating is worng/a sin, and if you believe in that religion, then don't masturbate. Simple.

[Dolphus Raymond]

You don't have an obligation to believe in a religion solely because your parents do. Belief is belief. If you don't really believe in it, and just force yourself into it for comfort, it isn't real faith. This is probably a question better suited for a religious forum. If you really do believe that masturbation is wrong under your religion, try not to do it. It's really that simple. Most religions say you can't apply human constructs to divine things. So, you may have to sacrifice something you don't understand the wrongness of. But that's a matter of your individual faith. We can't tell you what to believe.

I know that isn't a very satisfying answer, but I hope it's of some help.

[kungfu77]

I wouldn't do it because you can be doing better things with you life and it DOSN'T FEEL REALLY REALLY GOOD but if you want to do it there is no one stoping you. well if you look at porn thats a sin too so just keep that im mind:)

[Vermillion]

Yeah, it's a sin to look at humans in their natural form. OH-KAY, lol
Regardless, he never even stated which religion he belongs to, so it's not really fair for you to say that to him...