This Is Really Urgant

[PinkFloyd]

I have a girlfriend, Mariah and weve been together for almost 2 years. We trust each other a lot. There are no issues between us. In fact, were better then ever. The problem is with her friend Lexi. she doesnt have a lot of friends and hasnt ever been with anyone. Shes really nice at heart. But anyway she pulled me and mariah aside to ask a very serious question. She wants to "borrow" me for one week. This means we can go out and do what any steady couple would do. even..... hitting a home run. I was waiting for an answer from mariah to lexi. she said yes. i know this is a bad idea because im not comfortable going out with a different girl. Thers also the fact that me and mariah would be back together within a week. This would actually make things worse for lexi because she would have been sorta dumped. I reaaalllly dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP

[Desuetude]

Personally I don't think it's right but that's not my choice nor decision. You need to sit down with Mariah and tell her that you're not comfortable with this, give her the reasons. I'm sure she'd understand, if not, well, come to that if the time comes. Lexi will be upset sure but you don't know what you have a little fling with her will do to their friendship, even if it wasn't intended. I think you have the right idea and you just need to act mature about it and talk to your girlfriend.

[TheBigUnit]

This is really interesting, tell mariah that ur concerned that it may cuz trouble, it hit me strange that a gf is ok with u having sex with another girl, maybe ask them if they could share you at the sametime? Have A nice 3some :)

In all seriousness tho, what I would do is find a guy for her, I help my friends out sometimes if they need a wingman etc, ask some of ur friends who r single what they think of lexi etc,

[Light Warrior 7]

Find a guy for Lexi!
And I'm sure Mariah would be delighted to know how you only want to be with her and only her. She would trust you more, I just know it. She said yes for two reasons (I think..), she's testing you or she's really trying to help her friend out.
I suggest telling her what you feel.

[Lost in the Echo]

I don't think you should do it, you seem like a loyal guy, and it seems that you would feel uncomfortable dating this girl. For Lexi, it feels bad not being able to date anybody, but she should wait until the right guy comes along. This is kinda weird, and kinda being forced on to you, so I don't think you should do it. Eventually Lexi will find somebody, convince her of that, and tell her you don't want to date her because of your loyalness to your girlfriend.

[FreeFall]

Say no.

You're not responsible for the creepy friend that has no one else to leech from and has even sunk so low as to "borrow" her "friend's" boyfriend. Bet they borrow underwear too.

What if Lexi falls for you? What if she tries to break you up? What if she wants you for a year or every other week? What if Lexi gets so jealous she lies to your girlfriend about how you said you like her better and how she's so much better and stuff? What if she lies about birth control and gets pregnant by you? How fun will it be to be the baby daddy of your girlfriend's best friend? What if she wants a threesome? What if she wants all three of you to be a couple?

What if she starts running around calling you a man-whore because you won't be with her permanently?

You're a boyfriend, not a loan.


You're opening pandora's box. You've got a girlfriend, why do you need to be responsible for another girl and her feelings?

[Boss...]

FreeFall always has the best answers.

I completely agree with her, just tell her no before anything that you will regret even happens. It will keep it simpilier and better all the way around.

And if she does get depressed about you telling her no, just tell her there is some one out there for everyone. Hey if you have a lonely friend get them together so everone wins.

[ReginaGeorge]

Don't do it if you don't want too. It's really that simple. It is your choice. Plain and simple.

[justinglives]

One word;

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[workingatperfect]

At the end of the day, it's all your decision. If you aren't comfortable with it, don't let them talk you into it, go with your gut. Honestly, I find the idea really weird and awkward, and all that. Just tell them you think it's a bad idea, and you aren't comfortable with it.

If it was me and my boyfriend told a friend that he could "borrow" me for a week, I would be incredibly uncomfortable and concerned that he'd even consider it.