Sexuality Problems

[dusman77]

Recently I've had problems with my sexuality. For straight guys and gals, do you ever have bisexual thoughts or desires? And if you are bisexual or gay, how did you know you were? If anyone would like to talk to me privately about it, you can PM me. I wouldn't mind hearing from someone personally about it. I would like to talk to someone who actually is bi or gay.

[Craig1995]

I guess I just slowly began to realise that I thought guys were hot instead of girls, I do remember it being a mind fuck at first coz I didn't seem to love the sorta people I was meant to like guy girl sorta thing but yeah. I guess it was kinda simple for me I just realised I would rather a boy than a girl :L

[Lost in the Echo]

Well I am straight, but yeah bi/gay thoughts/desires are always bound to happen, especially during puberty with all the raging hormones and shit. I've always believed no one is 100% straight/gay because we all have curiosity, and we can't help that.

Also, i've said this before, but i'll say it again, during puberty, there is no need to label yourself Straight/Gay/Bi or whatever, there is a lot of confusion about your sexuality during puberty, this is normal, everybody goes through this, hormones are the main cause of this. Whatever your sexuality is, you will know at the end of puberty, after all the hormones settle down. So don't worry, you may be confused what sexuality you are, but rushing it may make your problem worse, wait until you are finished with puberty, and it should be clear what sexuality you are then, so until then, don't worry.

[dusman77]

I guess I just slowly began to realise that I thought guys were hot instead of girls, I do remember it being a mind fuck at first coz I didn't seem to love the sorta people I was meant to like guy girl sorta thing but yeah. I guess it was kinda simple for me I just realised I would rather a boy than a girl :L

Thanks for the reply. I think guys are hot as well as girls, but I can't imagine dating a guy. I don't know if I'm bisexual.

[dusman77]

Well I am straight, but yeah bi/gay thoughts/desires are always bound to happen, especially during puberty with all the raging hormones and shit. I've always believed no one is 100% straight/gay because we all have curiosity, and we can't help that.

Also, i've said this before, but i'll say it again, during puberty, there is no need to label yourself Straight/Gay/Bi or whatever, there is a lot of confusion about your sexuality during puberty, this is normal, everybody goes through this, hormones are the main cause of this. Whatever your sexuality is, you will know at the end of puberty, after all the hormones settle down. So don't worry, you may be confused what sexuality you are, but rushing it may make your problem worse, wait until you are finished with puberty, and it should be clear what sexuality you are then, so until then, don't worry.

Thanks for the reply. I'll wait it out and see how I feel after puberty.

[Jupiter]

actually, i'm pansexual.

i mean, i found out in about may after all of these things that happened and i just finally accepted the fact that i enjoy the thoughts men, women, and every other thing else that's out there. you can talk to me if you'd like. i've been through many different sexualities and i know what it's like to struggle!

[QueenOfTheOutcasts]

I'm still pretty confused, but I'm clearly attracted to other girls, so I've assumed that I'm bisexual.... But I really don't know.

[Halcyon]

I identify as homosexual but I suppose you could call me bisexual, depending on how you define it. I find some girls attractive but I don't think vaginas are very nice.

[AndroFrydo]

Its weird im bi-curious, but i always feel like my sexual desires lie with males but i couldnt have a relationship because my emotional and romantic desires lie with females if that makes sense? :S

[Daracon]

Only recently I have discovered that I am Bisexual, I have been curious for about 5 years off and on. I have both a physical and emotional attraction to males. It's hard finding out your sexuality, it's hard to distinguish real feelings from when hormones are messing with you. But just wait it out and see what happens. You can PM if you want to talk more, I am open to talking! :)

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Bisexual. Known since 2008, Out since 2012.

[dusman77]

Its weird im bi-curious, but i always feel like my sexual desires lie with males but i couldnt have a relationship because my emotional and romantic desires lie with females if that makes sense? :S

That makes complete sense. That's how I feel.

[Danny_boi 16]

I'm very confused right now. And its not like one day I'm attracted to guys then the next girls. Its every day! so I'm not sure what I am, but to answer the poll, I but put the closest thing, and i guess it was bisexual.

[Calvin_]

I've never felt attracted to a another guy.

[Abyssal Echo]

I'm gay I guess I've always known I came out when I was 13 almost 14

[Morgoth42]

I knew I was BI because I still was attracted, physically, to women but I was attracted to men as well.

[Lost in the Echo]

I've never felt attracted to a another guy.

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