I need help

[chucknorrisrules]

I really like this girl, but one of my friends likes me and wants to go out with me. I don't want to hurt my friend's feelings or give up on the girl i like. I'm also low on self-esteem and that doesn't help, so I just want to know what I could or should do?

[Serenity]

Well you definitely need to let your friend know that you don't like her like that- yes, it'll probably hurt a bit, but if she's a good friend she'll realize she should respect your feelings and value the friendship you already have. As for the other girl, I know it's easier said than done but go for it. Start conversation, become friends with her. Speaking of which, how close to her are you?

[chucknorrisrules]

I'm pretty close to her, but it seems lately that she has been drifting away...she doesn't really talk to me anymore, then again, she has been having problems...idk.

[Glasgow]

Ahh the world of liking eachother. It can be a very complicated world, but it can also be very easy. In my case, its a very complicated one. It seems like that with you aswell. My advice is just dont just go up to your friend and say that you dont like her. That could be disasterous. Wait till she mentions something, and then bring it up politely.

[byee]

You should go out with who you like. Going out with someone out of guilt or obligation is a lousy reason to do so. Both of you will feel lousy.

It's okay to turn someone down, but it's not okay to hurt them. There's a diff, you can be very gracious and still say no. Be nice, be a gentleman, and kindly tell her how flattered you are but you do not like her that way.

[Gumleaf]

you need to do whats right for you. there will be no good coming out of having a relationship with a friend you don't feel that way about. you need to tell her that because it will just ruin your friendship if you don't.

[ciberassasin1]

dont worry if she is a good friend she will understand that you just want to stay friends which shoudnt affect your relationship with her and will give you a chance to ask this new girl out so reply back if you need any more help ciberassasin1 is here.