choosing between friends

[SadisticAngels]

recently i have been having some trouble with my friends. i have been growing apart from my 4 besties that i always hang out with and now it just seems to always be drama or about boys with them. so i started hanging out with another group of people that my besties hate but i dont mind them because they're alot like me personality wise and i find it easy to be myself around them. 2 of my besties have been friends with them before and ended up getting hurt because of it and so it makes me feel guilty for hanging out with them. im not sure what i should do because i dont want to lose any of them but it feels like i have to chose between them and someones going to get hurt but i dont want to upset anyone and im just so fucking confused about what i should do so if anyone has good advice or knows from experience i would love you fivever (thats 1 better than forever) if you could please help me :confused:

[ReginaGeorge]

Unless one group says they don't want you to hang out with the others, or don't like it, I'd just keep hovering around like you are now. Split your time up, can be friends with both. You sound compatible with the other group so don't give them up. If you don't want to give up your original group then don't. It's simple. Social politics is stupid and people cause drama for themselves. You shouldn't feel guilty for your friends being hurt, you didn't hurt them, did you? If the other group is as good as you're saying, it sounds like they were just different. If your first group start being asshats and try to control who you hang out with then maybe you should just go with the other group, because they started hanging out with you even when you hung out with the original group. Apart from your feelings, it seems to be working alright for now. :) Don't stress.

[huntersteele11]

this mite be stupid but why cant you be friends with both groups and why is it wrong if you have two sets of friends? to me any ways if they are your real friend then it should not matter right? just sayin

[FreeFall]

Why do you need to pick?

Your relationship with them all, is vastly different from their relationships to each other. You're your own person, so are they. Just because Carol hates Susie, doesn't mean you can't be friends with both.

If they're all too immature to figure out that everyone has a different relationship to other people, you need new friends all together.