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Danny_boi 16
November 4th, 2012, 09:39 PM
Ok, so I was sitting in front of my crush in class. Then all of a sudden, I started crying, because I haven't asked him out, and I'm probably never going to. Has this a happened to anyone? or I'm i just over emotional?
TigerBoy
November 5th, 2012, 01:10 PM
Its really tough having a crush, and doubly so when you are gay and have to deal with all the additional crap from society. Its a lot of pressure, and its not surprising it gets to people sometimes.
This hasn't happened to me exactly, but I was crushing on my boyfriend for ages and I've had some really down times over thinking it would never happen including crying.
Sounds like you may need to let some of this pressure out somehow - maybe to friends, as you are now here on VT, or even using it as fuel to drive you to do something about your crush.
:hug:
Harley Quinn
November 5th, 2012, 01:33 PM
It's happened to me before because I was so overcome with the fact that this girl wasn't ever going to like me back, because she was straight but I was angry at myself for trying so I cried. I think everyone has a different way of dealing with things, and obviously you felt the need to cry to let it out.
dusman77
November 5th, 2012, 01:49 PM
You're not overemotional. Things like that are super stressful. Crushes suck. I've cried because of them too. But trust me, things will get better. Either you'll get over him or things will work out. So, as my all time favorite song states, don't stop believin'.
DerBear
November 5th, 2012, 03:11 PM
It can be a little of both. However I think it is because you have reach a realization that you, yourself will probably never ask him out and if you are already sensitive then it will have made it worse and therefore resulting in you feeling upset.
Don't worry though...It happens to a lot of people, sometimes we get upset over things that are in and out of our control. If you ever need to talk I am only a PM away.
Minzy
November 5th, 2012, 03:56 PM
This has happened to me before~ it sucks, doesn't it?
You should have the courage to ask him out! I didn't ask my crush out and it was a big heartbreak for me; just remember to calm down when he's around you. :)
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