What do I do?

[thatasiankid]

Last week I was at my friend's house to hang out. He knows I'm bi and hasn't had a problem with it. Well his parents weren't home and we were just playing xbox in his room. After that we searched for what was on TV. We were just hanging out and making jokes and all that. It got a little quiet, then he moved closer to me and leaned (I thought he was trying to kiss me). I asked what he was doing and moved away. I panicked and didn't really know what to do.

It was awkward. I waited for my parents to pick me up, and after I left his place. He didn't talk to me, not at school or after. I think he's avoiding me and I am so confused.

I don't know if he was trying to kiss me, I don't know why he is avoiding me. What should I do? I thought about talking to him, but its pretty clear he doesn't want to.

[dontfiguremeout]

Well obviously he wanted something to happen, probably experiment for sure. And I think the way you kinda handled it made him feel extremely bad and extremely uncomfortable to be with you. I don't think you talked to him after what he did, see what's happening. You need him to feel comfortable being with you so you guys can talk. So I think what you need to do is approach him calmly and talk to him, saying it's alright, you just wanna know why he did it. If you are smooth and really cool with him, he then will tell you since he sees that your gonna be cool with what he says too.

[Mathew0606]

He likes you. And that was kinda mean. All that inner turmoil inside of him is affecting hin. So he is debating his sexuality and you are sitting by him. He wanted to experiment. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out man.

[Akasuki]

I would probably do the same thing if someone I didn't like approached me like that too. What the hell am I supposed to do? Sit there and take it?

On the other hand, I totally understand what he feels right now. Text him or something and ask if he's okay.

[dusman77]

Try to talk to him calmly. You didn't handle it wrong, but you could've been more sensitive. He could be bi too, only he could be hiding it and be embarrassed of it.

[maxx14]

same thing happened to me a while back, me and my friend were hanging out and he puts his hand in my leg and i thought he was trying a move on me :P it was pretty awkward xD

[thatasiankid]

I know I might have been harsh but I just never thought of him "that way". I tried talking to him but he keeps avoiding talking or talking about what happened. But I'll jut talk to him again privately.

[thatasiankid]

On the bright side, he is pretty cute :)

[niceguy44]

Try to talk to him & sort it out.

[Sean4U]

since he knows you're bi, he was probably interested in something more than playing xbox and when he made the move, you rejected him...he may have been thinking that was the way to tell you that he was interested in moving in another direction and what you did made him feel he made a fool of himself or that you may like other guys but not him....talk to him....let him know that 1) you want to be his friend and 2) that you didn't expect him to do what he did and sort of freaked out.....

[Twilly F. Sniper]

I agree with most of these people. He probably likes you, either that or something snapped.

[teen.jpg]

Just let it pass, or you might lose a friend for bringing it back up again. If the time comes, take your chance, just don't push him too far.