How do I tell someone?

[UnGashaa]

I am currently single but I do want a boyfriend. However I don't want to have sex or anything with them I just want the closeness and things like that but I don't know how or if I should tell them without hurting their feelings.

[RCT109]

if it comes up then put ur foot down if not leave it alone

[dontfiguremeout]

Hmmm, well having a relationship shouldn't be all about that stuff anyways! It should mainly be the emotional part that matters! Yeah, everyone would love to have that in a relationship, and maybe you can just start off emotionally wise, and then once you feel that emotional part that you have been wanting to feel, then maybe think about the other part of the relationship!

[West Coast Sheriff]

Don't just blurt it out. Only tell them if it comes up. Tell them how you feel about it and just give them your thoughts and opinions, I'm sure they'll understand.

[ReginaGeorge]

Well, as soon as you start dating, the first step isn't generally sex, so you don't need to worry about that for a little while. With most people, they won't seriously talk about sex until they think they're emotionally attached, so you have time. When it does come up, you say exactly what you feel and what you want. Don't feel the need to agree with them andbe pushed over, because not necessarily the right person, but a good person will not think of you any differently if you just tell them that you're not ready.

[huntersteele11]

the problem with gf and bf is when you get one then its aboiut two people and not just what you want and that is why i dont want one yet because i dont think i want sex stuff yet to. i ges be honest and mabe they might want the same thing that you want but almost every one talks about sex at my school

[uberwhal3]

Just tell them youre not ready for that yet. They should understand. And if they dont, move on.