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PinkFloyd
November 3rd, 2012, 08:30 PM
So it was english and we were having independent reading. I was reading and not doing anything when this girl walked over to me and started grinding on me. Since im in a relation ship I said stop. She didnt. I then pushed her and she she fell over and sprained her ankle. this al happened while the teacher wasnt there so neither of us got in trouble. Did i do the right thing? I feel bad because she had to go to the nurse.

StoneColdNicky
November 3rd, 2012, 09:10 PM
Yeah, pushing her that hard that she fell was probably a bit extreme, but what she did is also sexual harassment. Hopefully this is the last you'll hear about it anyway.

Lost in the Echo
November 3rd, 2012, 11:25 PM
Yeah, I think you did the right thing. You're in a relationship, so she shouldn't have came up to and grinded against you, especially without your approval. You were just trying to get her to stop, it's not your fault she got hurt, she shouldn't have been trying to mess with you in the first place. I know it's hard not to feel bad, because she sprained her ankle, but you did do the right thing. I hope everything turns out fine for you, but like I said, you did the right thing trying to stop her, you didn't mean to hurt her.

West Coast Sheriff
November 4th, 2012, 12:38 AM
Yes, you did the right thing. You told her to stop, and when she didn't, you were trying to be faithful in your relation ship so you had to do what you had to do. Don't worry and feel bad about it. :D

ReginaGeorge
November 4th, 2012, 01:58 AM
She did the wrong thing, whether she knew you were in a relationship or not. You don't just start touching someone, especially sexually like that, that's not cool.

You did the right thing, but maybe a gentler push would have done the trick too. :P

Stronk Serb
November 4th, 2012, 04:31 PM
You did the right thing, not your fault she does not know how to fall down safely (I train martial arts so I learned how to fall safely, I do not feel a thing, and during practices we toss eachother around so it is pretty handy). You told her to stop, she did not, she could have expected that you would push her off or something.

Texas warrior
November 14th, 2012, 10:57 PM
I you said stop and she didn't that's sexual harassment, so pushing her of you is quite justified. Let me put it this way if you heard that a guy was grinding on girl and she pushed him down and sprained his foot wouldn't you think that was justified?

PinkFloyd
November 14th, 2012, 10:58 PM
I you said stop and she didn't that's sexual harassment, so pushing her of you is quite justified. Let me put it this way if you heard that a guy was grinding on girl and she pushed him down and sprained his foot wouldn't you think that was justified?

Yeah i see what your saying. thanks for the input.

Texas warrior
November 14th, 2012, 11:06 PM
Yea, good to I know I helped.

ayelove100
November 14th, 2012, 11:14 PM
You did the right thing until you pushed her. You should have just got up and walked somewhere else or something but pushing her was a bit harsh.

KidNova
November 14th, 2012, 11:30 PM
The pushing thing keeps getting to me, I don't know why. Can you give a little information on the push, like if it was an aggressive push, or a gentle one and she fell on accident.

PinkFloyd
November 15th, 2012, 04:56 PM
The pushing thing keeps getting to me, I don't know why. Can you give a little information on the push, like if it was an aggressive push, or a gentle one and she fell on accident.

It wasnt a push meant to do any harm. It was just unlucky that i had used more force than i needed.

KidNova
November 15th, 2012, 05:24 PM
It wasnt a push meant to do any harm. It was just unlucky that i had used more force than i needed.

Okay, that I can understand. But as everyone said, you did the right thing. You stayed true to your relationship.

Shaka
November 22nd, 2012, 06:43 AM
Yea, people need to not be afraid to get alittle physical with each other, I don't mean like 'forcing them', but yes I do mean using force to communicate... a Little. Not overdoing it, but not underdoing it either.

its.me.akshay
November 22nd, 2012, 11:25 AM
So it was english and we were having independent reading. I was reading and not doing anything when this girl walked over to me and started grinding on me. Since im in a relation ship I said stop. She didnt. I then pushed her and she she fell over and sprained her ankle. this al happened while the teacher wasnt there so neither of us got in trouble. Did i do the right thing? I feel bad because she had to go to the nurse.

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mann u did the right thing... But u shudnt have pushed er hard.... U might have slapped her or hit her... If ud have done that she might have stopped coming into ure life ever after.... Try saying sorry to her and you dont have any interest in her....