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Stronk Serb
November 3rd, 2012, 03:23 PM
Before I start this, let me explain a bit about my school, it will help you understand it better. There is no lunch break, we have 6 classes a day of which all take 45 minutes, we go to school ALWAYS in the morning (means more time to hang out), between classes we have 5 minute breaks exceot after 2nd class we have a 20 minute break. Now not to bore you to death with this stuff, here is the part that REALLY matters:

Ok, I switched schools 1 year ago at the beginning of 7th school year, in the last semester of my 7th school year I noticed this girl, I did not pay attention pretty much during the time, but I sort of developed a crush on her, the problem is, I am too damn shy (probably a consequence when I was beaten by my mother several times when I was 9-10 years younger or something, I did not talk to her or any other female unless I really needed to or were not spoken to sometimOf all classes only in physics I sit next to her (have to thank my surname for that, since the teacher sorted us alphabetically), the problem, apart from my shyness is that on breaks we cannot talk much, I can't seem to find her, I know how to track people, I could do that at the beginning of the breaks, but I do not want to scare her or make her think I am a stalker, since then I would lose ANY chances with ANY girl in my school.
I would like opinions of both guys and girls how to approach her, start a conversation and keep it running, I have overcome my fear of watching girls in the eyes a few weeks back, so that should help for now...

Gandalf
November 4th, 2012, 10:00 AM
Before I start this, let me explain a bit about my school, it will help you understand it better. There is no lunch break, we have 6 classes a day of which all take 45 minutes, we go to school ALWAYS in the morning (means more time to hang out), between classes we have 5 minute breaks exceot after 2nd class we have a 20 minute break. Now not to bore you to death with this stuff, here is the part that REALLY matters:

Ok, I switched schools 1 year ago at the beginning of 7th school year, in the last semester of my 7th school year I noticed this girl, I did not pay attention pretty much during the time, but I sort of developed a crush on her, the problem is, I am too damn shy (probably a consequence when I was beaten by my mother several times when I was 9-10 years younger or something, I did not talk to her or any other female unless I really needed to or were not spoken to sometimOf all classes only in physics I sit next to her (have to thank my surname for that, since the teacher sorted us alphabetically), the problem, apart from my shyness is that on breaks we cannot talk much, I can't seem to find her, I know how to track people, I could do that at the beginning of the breaks, but I do not want to scare her or make her think I am a stalker, since then I would lose ANY chances with ANY girl in my school.
I would like opinions of both guys and girls how to approach her, start a conversation and keep it running, I have overcome my fear of watching girls in the eyes a few weeks back, so that should help for now...

Try talking to her briefly during your physics lesson, start a conversation and who knows ther it might lead, if you become friends then you might manage to see her more often during the breaks and get to know each other better.

Just casually speak to her and if she seems interested friendship wise, ask her if she wants to hang out after school, you could even offer to help her with her work to create a purpose to be with her.



Good luck, hope I've helped :)

Stronk Serb
November 4th, 2012, 12:40 PM
Try talking to her briefly during your physics lesson, start a conversation and who knows ther it might lead, if you become friends then you might manage to see her more often during the breaks and get to know each other better.

Just casually speak to her and if she seems interested friendship wise, ask her if she wants to hang out after school, you could even offer to help her with her work to create a purpose to be with her.



Good luck, hope I've helped :)
Thanks, in Tuesday I have physics class, I will have a brief conversation, and it sort of happened that I am one of the best in history/maths in which... she is not really good at (average grades B-s mostly) so I can help her in those two, but right now, I will follow your advice, thanks :).

GoldenSnitch
December 2nd, 2012, 11:23 PM
Talk to her during a project. If you become friends, give her your e-mail or phone# so you can talk over the summer.